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post Oct 22 2008, 06:24 AM

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post Oct 23 2008, 09:11 PM

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QUOTE(BlueWind @ Oct 22 2008, 04:35 PM)
I last week only see her only sad.gif

Now have to wait another year
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That's so sad dude ohmy.gif

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post Oct 24 2008, 01:41 AM

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QUOTE(BlueWind @ Oct 23 2008, 10:20 PM)
Why are you showing unsure sign? blink.gif
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post Oct 24 2008, 09:16 AM

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QUOTE(jdreamer @ Oct 24 2008, 07:36 AM)
Don't be jealous, don't. The time will come. smile.gif

Anyway, guys... I have a great news! Most likely, I am ending the LDR (going back to SDR) in coming Feb/March! rclxm9.gif
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how could you?! traitor!!! tongue.gif tongue.gif laugh.gif
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post Oct 28 2008, 07:28 AM

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She is degrading in our relationship,im seeing she is changing.I just got the feeling in the guts and i don't know why.I trust her fully before,but something,something is not right..what must i do? sad.gif i really love her so damn much.

yesterday we went out.Usually before i set back home after sending her to her house she would say goodbye or a kiss.But she just walk away. mellow.gif .I just stared at my side mirror as i watch her walk back to her house.Something is not right.Well that's not just it.There's many more of the signs.I don't know why im feeling so sad about it.Or maybe im thinking too much. laugh.gif

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post Oct 28 2008, 09:32 AM

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QUOTE(jdreamer @ Oct 28 2008, 09:11 AM)
Well, if you feel insecure, there can only be 2 factors.

The first one is what you've mentioned, she's changing. Her heart is in doubt, feeling fades, appearance of third party (spannar), etc.

The second one is what we called insecurity-creates-wussiness. Yes, in LDR, we tend to feel that this doesn't feel right and that doesn't feel right but that are all our assumptions. But do you ever tried to calm down and think about the incident again? Maybe she's just tired after the outing? Or maybe she has some other problems that she doesn't like to share with the others? Well, talk to her nicely about it. Ask her with the attitude of concerning and not doubting her.
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You know what?i always told people it about TRUST.But when it happens to myself,its its kinda hard.Hate this feeling . Geez .Owh and for ur info I've ended my LDR for a few months already.Its SDR for me now.

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post Oct 28 2008, 02:13 PM

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QUOTE(jdreamer @ Oct 28 2008, 02:53 PM)
Again, trust and insecurity is the same thing to me. If you do no have enough trust, you feel insecure. If you have sufficient trust, there is no insecurity. I do not know much about your case and these are my assumptions and purely my own opinion. It's time to talk to her, mate.
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post Oct 28 2008, 05:54 PM

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QUOTE(Joshua_0718 @ Oct 28 2008, 05:56 PM)
Turnip, think positive but not the negative side YET. First of all, you need to be tolerate and make sure she is alright. All of us knew girls have pms, right? Or maybe she herself having problem. If you are thinking negative side, you aren't helping yourself and herself too.

Understand? Ask her and help her and yourself. wink.gif
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thanks guys.Well i tried to contact her,but cannot.Maybe she's just busy. happy.gif
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post Oct 31 2008, 07:32 AM

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QUOTE(andyjyneo @ Oct 30 2008, 10:38 PM)
Now Turnip must listen to Dato' Seri advice. Sure success.
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So we had a talk.Well,before i could say anything she just came and hug me and told me that she loved me so much and a peck on the cheeks.Erm,i was speechless(don't know why she did that suddenly) blink.gif .The insecurity and curiosity feeling seems like it gone already.It felt like she put a spell or something sweat.gif .In the end,i didn't tell her.Well,she did ask me "is everything a-okay dear? blush.gif whistling.gif Guess it was me that's been thinking too much i see. sweat.gif sweat.gif Silly,silly me. sleep.gif
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post Oct 31 2008, 12:18 PM

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QUOTE(BlueWind @ Oct 31 2008, 12:08 PM)
PMS kot?
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and PMS is?
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post Oct 31 2008, 01:58 PM

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QUOTE(BlueWind @ Oct 31 2008, 02:03 PM)
doh.gif
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sweat.gif sweat.gif sorry i don't get you laugh.gif

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post Oct 31 2008, 02:06 PM

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QUOTE(jdreamer @ Oct 31 2008, 02:58 PM)
Ah... google PMS. Read more about female. tongue.gif

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This newly established blog is managed by my girlfriend and I.  smile.gif
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so which one issit? Premenstrual syndrome or Poor Man Suffering. laugh.gif laugh.gif

And that would be nice to have both of you having your own blog mateys nod.gif
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post Oct 31 2008, 02:09 PM

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QUOTE(jdreamer @ Oct 31 2008, 03:08 PM)
Hehe, anything you like. Both acceptable. laugh.gif

Thanks a lot, do drop by our blog whenever you're free. tongue.gif
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i already did. blush.gif
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post Oct 31 2008, 02:41 PM

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QUOTE(jdreamer @ Oct 31 2008, 03:27 PM)
Who is Hafizal? tongue.gif

Added on October 31, 2008, 2:27 pmOh, it's Turnip!

Thanks for signing up as a follower!!  thumbup.gif

Added you to the list.  tongue.gif
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yep that's me alright.
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post Oct 31 2008, 11:19 PM

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QUOTE(andyjyneo @ Oct 31 2008, 09:59 PM)
See, I told you! Dato' Seri never goes wrong.
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post Nov 1 2008, 09:10 AM

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post Nov 1 2008, 12:34 PM

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QUOTE(jdreamer @ Nov 1 2008, 01:17 PM)
Did you do something.. 'bad'?
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same here...did you?
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post Nov 1 2008, 07:23 PM

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its like she's saying "sayang jgak u kat i eh?"

or am i wrong here? sweat.gif

so u know what to do,maybe ask her whats wrong?talk talk a little perhaps? nod.gif
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post Nov 1 2008, 11:50 PM

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QUOTE(asrulfaizyhelmi @ Nov 2 2008, 12:26 AM)
she sms-ed me at last.
she have problem with her parent.
her parent kinda blaming me because she didnt want to go to oversea for family vacation.
she said that she want to spent the holiday with me, instead of going to oversea.
but.
i didnt do so.
i ask her to go to vacation.
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Well that's good news that she sms you.

That's sad to hear dude.Sorry i forgot that you are still in LDR(yes this is an LDR thread tongue.gif ).Well at least you did it right by saying to her to go vacation with her family.But it would be sad for you because you couldn't spend time with her together.Well,lets gave her family the priority first shall we?yeap it sux. laugh.gif laugh.gif

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QUOTE(BlueWind @ Nov 1 2008, 10:00 PM)
guten morgan. Germanish? laugh.gif
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post Nov 2 2008, 08:06 AM

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