what to do if you find your partner flirting with other girls when you're like thousand miles away? flirting = calling a girl my dear, giving nicknames to each other .. I'm so pissed !

Wow, that's like too much, who knows it goes further *touch wood*

If you are a person who can just let it go that easily then just do it, but if you still want this relationship then have talks with him. Never let go without putting up a good fight. Hope you understand what I mean

Really don't understand what some girls are thinking, that particular girl also got a bf as well still want to do all this with other ppl's bf for what? Find some girls are really childish, esp those who keep thinking of playing and had never thought of settle down, wonder did they thought of spoiling other's life as well, wait until one day they face the same thing ..

Goes further, I can't do anything dealing with LDR like that, I won't let go that easily though ..

Good, not to let it go easily. - Some people just enjoy attention and the kind of fresh thing one la..

but i tried to end the relationship, but she dont want that to happen..i really have no idea wat to do now...i told her its just few years im gonna stay here, then ill be back, but i really dont know how to make her understand that...

Hmm, now I see your point there are you trying to end the relationship for her own good or you just do not wish to involve in LDR? Ask yourself. - Mostly when both sides really love each other a lot, they will continue and proceed to LDR. In most cases, won't work but you'll never know it's still possible.

haha yes I agree some girls I don't know why they just like attention even they don't like that guy they'll purposely fool around ruin others relationship then turn around and tell me saying she never do such things before and she was never interested with that guy and blame it all on the guy, *no eye see* these kind of people

That's the world~ what can we do, all kinds of different people.. *sigh*

normally the good ones will kena all this, and those who fool around will find a good one I wonder why?

Sigh... good day people.. I shall join this club already :| Just started a LDR..

So where's she heading?

She went back to HK

Are you ready for LDR?

You gotta understand how important is communication through phone or internet..you know what im saying?

Every line of words could spark trouble if you didn't choose to say it out properly. And don't control her.

N have to make time for each other, I mean probably set a time for each other to sit down n talk everyday if not LDR will be really tough if both party not willing to commit, I suffer alot when I first started LDR

me too. but I'm pro now. XD

I hate LDR and I am those who don't believe in it

No worries, although it's hard you have no choice.

Ya, if we don't talk for like very long time then it's quite hard to know what is each other doing or something, and we don't see each other everyday but again it's the limitation of LDR lor.. :)

This post has been edited by BlueWind: Sep 2 2008, 10:32 AM

Yeah i know, I've been setting aside considerable amount of time each day for that.
I think it's hard to control once pessimism and insecurity sets in, that's why, have to reassure her very frequently.

Gee.. this is my first experience of LDR.

What if you really love that person very much? N thinks that he/she is the one ..

Sometimes u'll have to be realistic one :|
..but Vinspire doesn't need LDR lar, he can simply pick another one around him :P

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Added on September 2, 2008, 11:13 amBtw, what if... it's a LDR with very uncertain future? :|
As in, she's back to her country, for good.. and I am planning to start my career somewhere else?
Lack of commitment of mine?

This post has been edited by tuRtL3: Sep 2 2008, 11:13 AM