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> HOW TO: Take the gal away from serious DEPRESSION?, ...resulting from the death of a dog?

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TSMrPudujail
post Jun 5 2008, 03:54 PM, updated 11y ago

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Guys girls guys girls guys girls....

OK, I need some serious teamwork here.
People with strong psychological insights.

I need to know what is eating people.
When a dog that is treated like a family member...
...died after a decade of strong bonding.
And the person became soooo mutha(wordnotavailablehere) depressed in life...
...she doesn't want to meet new people. doh.gif

How to help / change / make this person live normally again.
I NEED CREATIVE BUT PRACTICAL IDEAS!!! URGENT! icon_question.gif



U may use these helpful info from a book:

COPING WITH THE LOSS OF A DOG:
1. Losing a pet can be as difficult as losing any other family member.
2. Let friends/family know what ur going thru.
3. DO NOT ASSUME, though, that a new dog can replace the one you lost - dogs are individuals.
4. New dog - may or may not make situation better. It all depends on your dog's personality. Take time for good decision making.
5. An older dog might be a better choice than a rambunctious puppy.


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post Jun 5 2008, 03:56 PM

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U can offer yourself to be her dog?
TSMrPudujail
post Jun 5 2008, 04:00 PM

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NOTE: WaCKy-Angel and dogs are not allowed in mad.gif
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post Jun 5 2008, 04:01 PM

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just say: "i'm sure <name of dead dog> is in doggy heaven with all the other doggies. he/she happy. all the bones to eat and music too. let's boggie!!!"

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post Jun 5 2008, 04:16 PM

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hello i am <dog name> here to serve u..
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post Jun 5 2008, 04:19 PM

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giver her another dog? or give her a cat.
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post Jun 5 2008, 04:21 PM

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Dont worry i felt the same too...when my hamster died.....

i will go away with time .............
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post Jun 5 2008, 04:26 PM

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dude get thru wit your feeling 1st..
time is all she need u will know if u been thru that, so relax
TSMrPudujail
post Jun 5 2008, 04:26 PM

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QUOTE(kanabalize @ Jun 5 2008, 04:21 PM)
Dont worry i felt the same too...when my hamster died.....

i will go away with time .............
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Thanks, and my heartfelt condolences.

Say, may i know how long u kept the hamster and how long u took to totally forget about ur dear little fren?
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a few months..... i never forget about him... the experience has changed me into not loving any animal again.... even kittens i have no feeling anymore....

But accepted the reality and move on although i know i can never love any other animal again......

life is sad/cruel but we have to move on......
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post Jun 5 2008, 05:11 PM

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is she ur gf?
if not, why u kpc?
if u not her gf, u go kacau, she wil see u as ANNOYING.

Seriously, if my dog died, and some fugly girls come along and always "ah, i feel sad for u, i feel sad for u, i feel sad for u, i buy u new dog, i buy u new dog, i buy u new dog, i buy u new dog'

Sure i feel like punching her in her face and asking her to go away into her hole or something
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QUOTE(icypetals @ Jun 5 2008, 05:11 PM)
is she ur gf?
if not, why u kpc?
if u not her gf, u go kacau, she wil see u as ANNOYING.

Seriously, if my dog died, and some fugly girls come along and always "ah, i feel sad for u, i feel sad for u, i feel sad for u, i buy u new dog, i buy u new dog, i buy u new dog, i buy u new dog'

Sure i feel like punching her in her face and asking her to go away into her hole or something
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post Jun 5 2008, 05:23 PM

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just let time flow ts, she will be all right smile.gif
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post Jun 5 2008, 05:26 PM

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don't worry she'll be fine after a few months... when my dog died i cry my eyes out... but can diff geh.. a pet is a pet smile.gif
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post Jun 5 2008, 05:29 PM

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Girls are simple minded and its call typical mindset.

The only person can help herself is to realise it herself.
Usually if u can distract her attention to other things or maybe get another cuter pet for her. Maybe she cant let go of the old one but it might be capable to keep her distracted
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post Jun 5 2008, 05:47 PM

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QUOTE(icypetals @ Jun 5 2008, 05:11 PM)
is she ur gf?
if not, why u kpc?
if u not her gf, u go kacau, she wil see u as ANNOYING.

Seriously, if my dog died, and some fugly girls come along and always "ah, i feel sad for u, i feel sad for u, i feel sad for u, i buy u new dog, i buy u new dog, i buy u new dog, i buy u new dog'

Sure i feel like punching her in her face and asking her to go away into her hole or something
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Nuff' said.

And so must be you rolleyes.gif
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post Jun 5 2008, 06:31 PM

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Erm.... just let her be?
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post Jun 5 2008, 06:34 PM

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Dog die buy again la.....by a nicer wan then she will be happy...garage sales the're a few cute dogs and puppy i suggest u go take a look
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post Jun 5 2008, 06:40 PM

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If the girl could just replace her strong bond of her dead dog with another dog, be very afraid......

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post Jun 5 2008, 06:41 PM

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QUOTE(MrPudujail @ Jun 5 2008, 03:54 PM)
Guys girls guys girls guys girls....

OK, I need some serious teamwork here.
People with strong psychological insights.

I need to know what is eating people.
When a dog that is treated like a family member...
...died after a decade of strong bonding.
And the person became soooo mutha(wordnotavailablehere) depressed in life...
...she doesn't want to meet new people. doh.gif

How to help / change / make this person live normally again.
I NEED CREATIVE BUT PRACTICAL IDEAS!!! URGENT! icon_question.gif
U may use these helpful info from a book:

COPING WITH THE LOSS OF A DOG:
1. Losing a pet can be as difficult as losing any other family member.
2. Let friends/family know what ur going thru.
3. DO NOT ASSUME, though, that a new dog can replace the one you lost - dogs are individuals.
4. New dog - may or may not make situation better. It all depends on your dog's personality. Take time for good decision making.
5. An older dog might be a better choice than a rambunctious puppy.

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Very simple , Empathize with her , Meaning get her to talk and dont say a word , every few minutes say *aha , Hmmm , Oh...* , kiss her a lot and be affectionate , dont give advise and dont force get he to be happy , There is a thread here somewhere in this forum about the book MEN ARE FROM MARS and WOMEN ARE FROM VENUS , Now is a good time to read the book and follow its advise..

If I was in your place , I will just be around her and wait until she recovers , If she doesnt , I will tell her come one you also will die some day , so relax already !

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