umm, we are from the same world.

im just telling u wat husband thinks and never say
is up to u whether u want to listen and look into the world of man or neglect it urself, from wat i see, i think u choose not to listen

gave u insight of majority of man, is man wishes, what u expect? even if she is fat, the husband stil love her.
but many husband still want their wives to be skinny.

so im telling something a husband nv say except sharing among friends,
whether u want listen or not la

this IS early marrige problem, after birth the wife become fat, so is related
then u better start geting some motivation.
sign urself up along with ur bf/hubby to a gym or badminton lessons, or get some friends.
or ask ur bf/hubby to run with u in the morning.
is sweet, healthy, good for ur relationship, and u Look GREAT!

somemore when ur friend all plum plum, u get to feel special cause u look hot.
when ur husband takes u out, he feels proud to take u out, show off to his friend, it feels great for both the husband and wifes.

isnt that enough reason for u to start?

I support what did u said !!! 

Hehe, dont call my post rubbish....sedih la budak cam aku ni....aku ni...aduhh.....sedih...sedihhh

Temporarily closing thread for cleaning (and whipping IF necessary.)

DONE

Please stay in topic and refrain from posting overly generalized and sexist remarks.

please stay focus to the topic! dont spam my thread or else i kena warning!!! duh!!

i wont be offended as u r not in my shoe. so i dont mind at all. i just need advise and i got it already. the decision is mine and ive make it and i wont be having public announcement to tell everyone about it. Thanks everyone!

this is my last note here... since TS said thread is close. (actually didnt close properly ~ mod please help to close )

MSA i think u and i r the only guy who value for family. too many give up too fast... expecially young one... is it heartening to see that

more over TS ask at the wrong place, LYN forum have too many inexperience "kid", geek, and definitely some r loser. doesn't mean to hurt anyone or start a war here. (speaking from my mind, just too straight).

why u all like to hear only one side story?
this is a mistake, TS point of view is unacceptable as she already bias...
u all must know, the word by itself can kill... just too powerful, by given wrong advise u all r destroying the kid life and many more ppl. thing r not so simple especially to outsider... even it is jus a puppy love, it can turn to true love.

how many ppl can find true love with story line from novel or movie?
if u all looking for great love adventure, u all r too naive... u can only make it your own story not from others.

learn to settle down, love can be cultivate which will grew strong by time.
learn to accept own failure and others, nobody is perfect
learn to tolerate, dont fight over small issue, some like to fight coz it is love
learn to responsible not just to spouse and kids, parents in law is also important

well many more, u just need to learn step by step.
same like cooking, nobody perfect at first but u will learn as time passby.
give up mean u cannot enjoy your own perfect food.
the process of lifetime.