I dont know about other religion, but as a muslim, to me , it is the responsibility of the girl's father to support the girl before she is married, but after she marries, it is the responsibility of the husband.

So in reference to your question, my personal opinion, it is not wrong or right to accept when you are still courting. But for me, I will not take it, as I prefer to be independent. But if he will be offended if yuo dont take the money, or maybe to jaga his hati, you can take the money but save for your future together. And work at the same time, to earn your money to support yourself.

just my 2 cents worth..