well.. it was interesting to see it on perspective that a girl use up the guy's money.. this is because, to me... the guy always have some agenda to extort the girls money.. I happens, I don't know why....

get this, it get worst when you are married to the person who does not know how to handle financially, extort yours and finish the money off and then to depend on in-laws for more money...

I get this one as a brother in law.... its very very irritating on seeing how irresponsible he is. My sister also a stupid one who don't limit their family's spending.

Now?

Riding a Gen-2 car (on loan and buy it immediately after it was sold out to public)
Have a Nokia N78 (also switch handphones monthly)
Steal/Sell off my dad's expensive stuff (The home theater/amplifier) (My dad turns blind eye on this actually)
Finish off my first sister's savings (on the car and not using his money)
Smoke in front of his 4weeks old baby and 3 years old daughter (finish 2-4 box of cigarettes daily)
has a questionable income (no longer work at the car factory.. I notice.. but since he had no degree nor diploma nor a STPM cert... his income were basically under RM1000 but live like someone who had an income of RM5000..)
calls himself as a salesperson who go out at 7am and come home at 4am and have no sleeping disorder (curious..)
can't afford the bills (which my dad pays for 3 years worth of bills - electric, water, ASTRO, housephone and ect)
have a debt of RM8000


and pull off a big fight about "how poor he is and how poor his family is and how ungrateful it is my family is" to my third sister.

hahah... how disgust I am to people who acted like they are rich when they aren't.


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In my case, I was flattered when my BF offer to pay but then, it makes me feel degraded on some moral level... lol