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TSyeelin04
post May 24 2008, 11:07 AM, updated 18y ago

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Help Me PLEASE!!!

I have this situation here..i met a guy named T (not real name) thru a TV chat..then one day he told me he broke off with his gf after 4 years.. then we chat n chat thru smses...then he told me last time one of his ex ask him to follow her to Australia and leave everything behind in Malaysia as the girl migrate there with her family. Then i told him..if i were him i am surely to follow that girl (i ws just joking) but he took it seriously and then from that time onwards he start to ask me to be his gf..i dont love him coz its just that the feelings is not there.Then he even threatens me saying that if i dont accept his request he will go overseas and leave everything in Malaysia including his family coz of ME!!

His background is a very powerfull person (tai lou) and financial status very stable..the only son in the family with 2 step sisters but already married.

Till now actually i am threaten by him..i have no choice but to accept his request to be his gf..if not he treathens me to leave malaysia and his dad & friends will look for me and ask for the reason.. i seriously dont know what to do..i have never gone out or seen him in person b4 as i keep giving excuses for not free,busy and stuff...i am TIED...how am i supposed to UNTIE myself from this problem?
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post May 25 2008, 10:57 AM

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There's a Cupid Club for a reason =.=
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post May 25 2008, 11:16 AM

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For goodness sake, you both never met before and you were afraid that his family will find you. Do they even know where you live? Even if they managed to find you, worse come to worse, seek your friends for advice and not here.... And ask your friends if they willing to help you DEAL with them.
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post May 25 2008, 11:23 AM

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sweat.gif sweat.gif sweat.gif sweat.gif sweat.gif sweat.gif

many tai lou can becmoe kai dai now


why u so afraid leh??? just ignoring him la,.....let him go to aussie...... he dont have any relationship to u at all


why bother him leh??? let him go la....... let him go to die also no problem...... so childish this guy shakehead.gif shakehead.gif shakehead.gif shakehead.gif
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post May 25 2008, 11:28 AM

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Exactly, why bother him at the first place when you don't have relationship involved with him..
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post May 25 2008, 11:33 AM

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[SIZE=7]
[SIZE=14]u said tat he havent met u b4 rite?
den,how his dad n sister is going to look for u? cuz he cant even know where to look for u?
n dun afraid of threat....if they really look for u
u can report to police?
or u can seek for help at any MCA or DAP branch to look for help.....
they will definetly help.....


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post May 25 2008, 12:00 PM

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girls nowadays are easy to cheat and take things seriously

i am so happy such girls still exists
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post May 25 2008, 12:04 PM

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this looks seriously stupid
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post May 25 2008, 12:15 PM

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agree with jaraque -,-
since you said he is a so-called-tailou..
so.. i assume your age is not that young too right?


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post May 25 2008, 01:08 PM

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=/ hmm. why don't you just let him go aussie lah. XD who cares if he leave his family here or whatever
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post May 25 2008, 01:20 PM

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Human are selfish beings. He threatens you makes him a selfish person, without thinking what;s your feelings are. Then why are you being so generous? He;s using your weakness and use it to his advantage. Follow what other people says - leave him. Learn from him, be selfish for your own sake
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post May 25 2008, 01:25 PM

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QUOTE(yeelin04 @ May 24 2008, 11:07 AM)
Help Me PLEASE!!!

I have this situation here..i met a guy named T (not real name) thru a TV chat..then one day he told me he broke off with his gf after 4 years.. then we chat n chat thru smses...then he told me last time one of his ex ask him to follow her to Australia and leave everything behind in Malaysia as the girl migrate there with her family. Then i told him..if i were him i am surely to follow that girl (i ws just joking) but he took it seriously and then from that time onwards he start to ask me to be his gf..i dont love him coz its just that the feelings is not there.Then he even threatens me saying that if i dont accept his request he will go overseas and leave everything in Malaysia including his family coz of ME!!

His background is a very powerfull person (tai lou) and financial status very stable..the only son in the family with 2 step sisters but already married.

Till now actually i am threaten by him..i have no choice but to accept his request to be his gf..if not he treathens me to leave malaysia and his dad & friends will look for me and ask for the reason.. i seriously dont know what to do..i have never gone out or seen him in person b4 as i keep giving excuses for not free,busy and stuff...i am TIED...how am i supposed to UNTIE myself from this problem?
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well, bless him and suggest him to go Holland.
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post May 25 2008, 01:34 PM

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post May 25 2008, 01:35 PM

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QUOTE(Gr3yL3gion81 @ May 25 2008, 01:34 PM)
Holland is a good place to fly kite. nod.gif
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remember, tai lou dun fly kite.
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post May 25 2008, 01:42 PM

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QUOTE(7chai @ May 25 2008, 01:35 PM)
remember, tai lou dun fly kite.
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That's a good hobby to learn, other than scaring kids through the Internet.

Oh yeah, tai lou don't threaten through Internet either. They splash red paint or acid, depending on how emo they are.
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post May 25 2008, 01:43 PM

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QUOTE(Gr3yL3gion81 @ May 25 2008, 01:42 PM)
That's a good hobby to learn, other than scaring kids through the Internet.

Oh yeah, tai lou don't threaten through Internet either. They splash red paint or acid, depending on how emo they are.
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yeah, i guess thats what TS afraid now.
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post May 25 2008, 01:49 PM

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QUOTE(7chai @ May 25 2008, 01:43 PM)
yeah, i guess thats what TS afraid now.
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Well, one piece of advice for TS.

If you have any records of that person's threat, it's a good time to make a police report.
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post May 25 2008, 02:23 PM

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u already become his slave.
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post May 25 2008, 05:28 PM

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QUOTE(yeelin04 @ May 24 2008, 11:07 AM)
Help Me PLEASE!!!

I have this situation here..i met a guy named T (not real name) thru a TV chat..then one day he told me he broke off with his gf after 4 years.. then we chat n chat thru smses...then he told me last time one of his ex ask him to follow her to Australia and leave everything behind in Malaysia as the girl migrate there with her family. Then i told him..if i were him i am surely to follow that girl (i ws just joking) but he took it seriously and then from that time onwards he start to ask me to be his gf..i dont love him coz its just that the feelings is not there.Then he even threatens me saying that if i dont accept his request he will go overseas and leave everything in Malaysia including his family coz of ME!!

His background is a very powerfull person (tai lou) and financial status very stable..the only son in the family with 2 step sisters but already married.

Till now actually i am threaten by him..i have no choice but to accept his request to be his gf..if not he treathens me to leave malaysia and his dad & friends will look for me and ask for the reason.. i seriously dont know what to do..i have never gone out or seen him in person b4 as i keep giving excuses for not free,busy and stuff...i am TIED...how am i supposed to UNTIE myself from this problem?
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You know whts the best way. Have courage to go jumpa his father and talk to him and don't be confrontational. Then only you can untie the mess that you and him do.
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post May 25 2008, 05:33 PM

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I Think that guy is coward using those kind of threat.....what a loser.!!

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