go hang out with new friend (throught workplace,school,friend's friend) especially those single and available ( then they will have time for u) and probably be interested to get to know u more ( for further relationship)........just enjoy the whole process of courting and flirting again........and wala......new boyfriend/girlfriend in your grip (only effective for those open-minded out-going ppl)......getting over a past relationship is as easy as changing clothe if you allowed it......thats what my friend did well a girl.....who seem desperate to get new bf cos she has a big pride on her shoulder......cant stand being single when all of her peers are partnered.