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Serious HOW TO GET OVER A BROKEN RELATIONSHIP, Post all "getting over" advice here

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trowapeter
post Sep 25 2016, 12:58 PM

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I dunno if this is considered broken relationship but it does seem like to me.

So here how the story goes.

I'm working at a factory where this girl is my leader. Her age is way above me by a lot ,she could even be my mother .
Thus ,during this 1years plus of working together ,I've gotten close to her as friends. We share and speak about a lot of things (nothing too personal ) .

So normally in factory ,office politics applies here too .Ppl backstabbing each other and so ,and IMO she's always the unlucky victim. Due to unforeseen circumstances ,I was being transferred to another department ,and just as I think its bad enough to be transferred ,I was transferred into the place where the ppl kept backstabbing her the most.
Weeks goes on without trouble until few days ago when she suddenly out of nowhere keep on shouting at me angrily .I was clueless and shrug it off thinking it was her time of the month when she's having mood swing .And today I had it enough that she ignoring me and indirectly complain about me in front of me . I know she wasn't happy about my new department leader which always stabbing her in the back .

So I confronted her about it ,telling her to stop the annoying attitude of her and just tell me directly if I did something wrong . And somehow we argued and she started crying cry.gif and ltr she come and tell me that our friendship are over . I was dumbfounded ,and I went to apologize to her with no success. She straight out blocked my whatsapp too.

cry.gif I dunno how should I proceed from here, should I just take her as colleague and only discuss work related from now on. Or try to mend our relationship back.

I'm interested in her romantically but I nvr really confessed to her before.
trowapeter
post Sep 30 2016, 07:25 PM

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Thanks for ur advice ,I think that I'm still immature when it comes to love. It was one sided love from me to begin with . I will now move on and see how it goes while finding a correct time to apologize to her again . And if she still insisting of not being friends with me ,I'm fine with it.

 

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