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Serious HOW TO GET OVER A BROKEN RELATIONSHIP, Post all "getting over" advice here

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siewmai
post Mar 6 2019, 04:20 PM

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QUOTE(fullmetalneko @ Feb 12 2019, 10:11 AM)
Going through a "supposed" break up as well I guess. Girl I have been with for 5 years (although not an actual BF/GF relationship) just told me to forget her and stopped all communication with me. Nosy as I was, with some stalking in FB  I found that she was with another guy.

Although we really never did solidify the relationship, I never did realize the extent of my feelings for her until now and now that she's gone, it is such a difficult thing to handle at the moment. Also, with Valentine's Day coming up, the very thought of her celebrating it with someone else also eats me up inside.

Thanks to some good points here, I have recently started working out again which I have stopped for a long time and found it to be a good distraction from my thoughts of her. Throwing myself into work also helps alot.

Though it does suck that during personal time alone that many thoughts and "what if" instances always creep into my mind and I always wonder of what I may have done differently to change this outcome. Any tips on how to keep your thoughts from wondering? hmm.gif
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Maybe you can read this: https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/liv...ll-love-your-ex

i think it helps.
siewmai
post Mar 20 2019, 10:14 AM

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QUOTE(luckyboyzz86 @ Mar 7 2019, 08:19 PM)
i just break up 3 month ago. the easiest way to forget her. delete all photo, throw everything that remind of her, dont stalk facebook or wassap at all. its gonna hurt. dont care what she doing. all will be fine. its been one week i have stop contacting her. i feel better alot. trust me.  thats the only way by not knowing what she doing.
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Ya, this is a good one.. the best is hide the facebook notification or updates from her. There is a button for that. hide this person for a moment.

For the whatapps, just delete the number so you wont trace her timing or photos which making you miss her... Just stop everything and one day she will regret it....

Sometimes when you are too available for them, they take things for granted.

Cheers bro!!




In additions, my ex knew that I didnt see all her posts or vanishing for some times, she kind of disappointed and angry. Then I replied her this:

In the event, I saw you in good conditions, my heart will still be broken because I thought the one supposed to be with you during good times shall be me,
Also, in the event, I saw you sad or in bad conditions, my heart will still be sour because during bad times, I'm not there for you to protect you and loved you.
So I rather don't know or don't care anything about you in order for me to slowly walk away from this relationship. Are you happy with the explanations now?


If you tell this, I guaranteed they will kept themselves quiet.

This post has been edited by siewmai: Mar 20 2019, 10:45 AM
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