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Serious HOW TO GET OVER A BROKEN RELATIONSHIP, Post all "getting over" advice here
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shanyuet
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Jul 1 2014, 03:51 PM
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QUOTE(lawtm @ Jun 27 2014, 09:26 PM) walao i put so many effort le and jst want give up like that???? 9 months my dear~ If she's interested, she would have already said YES. 9 months is not short baby! -.- more than enough for "introduction"
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shanyuet
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Jul 3 2014, 01:43 PM
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QUOTE(Mx-ZAi @ Jul 2 2014, 11:26 AM) Probably one of my hardest times in recent times.. Going to break up with my gf of 7 years.. Because we are not on the same page anymore.. Shes working and im still studying with a year left. She told me yesterday that her feeling towards me is not as strong as last time, and that she scare she will regret if she commit her whole life on one guy onli (im her one and only for now). She told me she felt contented with her life now, having her career and bunch of colleagues or what to talk with.. I cant stop thinking if theres a third party but she firmly tell me no and i choose to trust her on that. Now i just feel like shit.. And i would have to muster up the courage to break up with her in a while.. Hope i can slowly recover from this.. But 7 years is a long time.. Ouch! thats painful -.- But i'm not surprise. Girls are naturally mature thinker. When they achieved another level, they will tend to judge their partners. That is also the reason why! Girls fell in love with guys who achieved more or even have higher salary than they themselves. I assumed your gf now is comparing you and herself. "My bf is still studying, i'm working! And hey! Working men are soo attractivee!! My bf is still a student! Hey look! that finance guy look charming! My bf wore t-shirt still, le sigh! And yikes! Who's that guy over there!  He wore tie, leather shoe and wow! Coat! Must be high level in his company!" Hang in there buddy! I know its a pain but no worries! You'll find a better one (if *touchwood* you both didn't make it) You'll pretty soon step into working society and soon will have lotsa girls attracted to you. Trust me!
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shanyuet
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Jul 3 2014, 01:50 PM
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QUOTE(lawtm @ Jul 2 2014, 08:33 PM) this is to show my sincerity to her....waiting with my patience can show the seriously my love to her but until nw i still haven't get the answer....what should i do haiz How old are you, my dear? Haix.. I do not want to comment more since you're so persist in that girl. I'm just a passerby~ BTW, my friend who waited for a girl for nearly 2 years, finally got a gf and is not the girl he persist on. LOL! Come to see the whole picture, I realized that, he found a better one! And my gawd! You should see that girl face when she knew he found a gf! She turn back and wanted to start new with that guy! I felt so annoyed. I hope there's no Korean drama starting anytime soon or any third party. Fuiii....
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shanyuet
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Jul 4 2014, 06:05 PM
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QUOTE(lawtm @ Jul 4 2014, 05:17 PM) mine already old liao le....25 years old am only 24. so i go diam diam sit at the corner *sit corner*
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