Time always heals. Even though the process may be a long and painful one, but at the end of it, we all emerge happy and cheerful again, just to fall into yet another trap. I wish I was never lured into wanting to try things out again with someone new.

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Added on July 20, 2009, 3:08 amI could tell you so many things, but really, at most, they would only offer you temporary relief.

It's only your self-determination that could help you through this. What is best to do now is to give yourself, your train of thoughts a break.
Stop thinking about how to get over her, how upset you felt about her, how she had made you feel like dying, because after stripping off all the adjectives,and prepositions, the essence of your thoughts are still her, her and more of her.

So what am I going to think about if I stop thinking about what I'm going to do about her, you ask.

Have a hobby? A project that you were eager to start but has never gotten around to doing it?

Now may be the best time to plan and carry it out.

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Added on July 20, 2009, 3:24 amMore often than not, when it comes to matters of the heart, what one really want is empathy, a listening ear, someone to talk to, someone to share similar feelings with, someone to go through issues with or to nurse the broken heart together with. It is a process that cannot be broken down into universal steps intended to be catered for all as our experiences are unique and our personalities are different. Especially when one is going through such a turbulent time in life, having the support from people all over will always result in better coping and adjustment for the person.

That is why you see so many damn threads asking questions that are answered here.



This post has been edited by maskingtape: Jul 20 2009, 03:24 AM

That is just what you think.
In reality, there are choices, just that you are too blinded by love at this point in time to see them.
Maybe it's time to open your eyes, slowly.
If you could shrug yourself to a dead end, try shrugging yourself back to life.
Who knows, it might be a refreshing change.

Haha. I took up fencing as my 'rebound'. Works so well.

Hey, so now you can use wing chun to snare new girls.

This post has been edited by maskingtape: Jul 23 2009, 12:48 AM