QUOTE(lingweiyee @ Apr 7 2016, 02:26 PM)
I still miss my ex although I have already started a new relationship. Even every moment my mind will kept popping up my memories with him. He used to love me so much and care for me. I am the one who gave up and go for another guy. and now i felt regretted. Too bad he already have a girlfriend now. I just cant forget about him,
i go for another guy it is because I am 2years older than him I am afraid he might go for another girl since we have already coupled for 7years. He will only marry me another 5 years due to his mum said he cant marry early or else he will have to wives. I met P at a charity party, and we exchange phone number n started to chat. After a few weeks of chatting, I felt he is the one who suitable for me so i left my ex. I know i hurt my ex so badly, he even came to my house beg for my forgiveness and trying to hold back our relationship. At that moment, I try to avoid meeting with my ex n after few times finally he gave up.
P is a good man, he is 5years older than me. He is a hardworking person but he is uneducated. At 1st I thought this is not a matter as long as he love n care for n willing to earn $ then its ok already. But recently we started to because of $ we quarrel. Due to when I am with my ex we never encounter this problem due to my ex from a wealthy family everything supported by his family. The reason I choose P, i felt he can support a family since he came from a poor family n earn $ all on his own. And i started to compare him with my ex which make him so angry of me.
Sometimes i think I can get a better man.. y should i be with him.. but I am afraid if i gave up on him i might be alone forever.. haix.. just dunno what i really wan..
Seriously you dump your ex due to that reason?
Calling me insecure or not, but seriously when people in a relationship, its really best to limit the contacts with opposite sex, because anything really could happen even if you trust your other half very much.
In your case, since you already made up your mind previously to go with P. I guess there is no turning back, better put in more effort to make this relationship work out. And If you're really confidence that you can get a better man, then yes you can leave P. But this time please think carefully, do not make the same mistake anymore.
One more things, its a NO NO to compare your BF with your EX. I am not sure hows woman will felt when the BF is comparing her with his EX. But as a man myself, its really hurts a lot when being compared with EX.
Just my opinion.
Nov 20 2012, 12:53 AM
good luck.
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