i've broken up with my bf for 7 years. it's been 3 weeks since he broke off with me. He wanted a breakup because he doesn't have feelings for me anymore, he said it's more like companionship. He is also currently with another girl.

Sometimes, things just happen without you expecting it. I did not realize our relationship was at the verge or breaking up because i thought we were still loving and that we can really get along very well. Maybe i don't have good six sense? I don't know.

Well, the time has come to end our 7 years relationship and i've sorta accepted the fact. But of course, it's not easy to suddenly go back to being single and that your companion is now a stranger to you.

He still talks to me coz he would like to still remain friends with me. If you ask me, i am not that angry about him being with another gal. That's his choice. No point holding him back if his heart is already with another gal and that he thinks there is no use to stay with me anymore.

I know time will heal my wound. Just wondering how do ppl get over the loneliness sometimes. For me, i share everything, ups and downs with my bf. So it's kinda hard when no one is there to listen to you. Especially when i have a habit to keep all the stories to tell him at night.

Right now, i don't hope to get a bf soon. Because i am scared the same thing might happen after 7 years. Are all guys the same? get bored after a long time in a relationship and would tell you one day that they have no feelings for u? Hmmm...how do you actually find a person to get married and stay together for >60 years then? I wonder...

I feel for you mate. Hope you'll be able to get thru this hard time. I know it's worst when your ex doesn't even want to keep you as a friend. Just like a stranger all of a sudden. Not easy to get used to it. But well, i think eventually you will find that this is a new start for you to explore what are the things out there you've missed out when you were in a relationship with your partner. Discover yourself and remember that relationship with your bf/gf is just one part of life, not everything. Try to focus more on other things you are capable of, or other goals in life.

You'll know soon that you will be just fine (or maybe a better person) without your ex.

Never thought it would be that bad. I mean 1 year and still not able to let her go completely? Hmm..I need to think twice now if i should keep in touch with my ex. He promised not to show me anything about his new relationship, but i don't know how long that would last.