QUOTE(SweetBubblegum @ Apr 21 2011, 01:09 AM)
The best way to get over something (anything really) is to pick up a new hobby. Keep yourself busy with something that you like/want to do and you'll bound to forget about the failed relationship.
At least that's what i tried to tell my ex. Then he missed call my hp 24/7 and when i decided to switch it off he called the house phone 24/7 to the point when it rings - Guarantee dia! I gave up and said let's be friends.... but now he's saying we're couples again. And i'm feeling like a parrot when i keep saying "WE ARE NOT COUPLES!" How to deal with that kind of broken relationship?
Saying 1 thing and doing another is another thing. Because you are not that person you dont care. I do not know your entire relationship but by cutting off shows you are selfish. Have you try to put yourself in other people shoe? Do you like if someone treats you the same tell you the same thing? It will be alright?
If you provided a logical reason why the relationship fails at least he can wake up and change or accept the cause of failure.
Selfish ppl will just avoid
Mature ppl will make you understand the reason and find alternative to move on. Why he cant let go because he do not understand what happen and your are selfish to just avoid easy way out
Added on May 2, 2011, 8:12 amQUOTE(x|aofiish @ Apr 21 2011, 04:48 PM)
guys can tell me what is this feeling?
basically, i don't feel heartache anymore, im done mourning, but in college today, i had the urge to attend lecture(teacher finished the syllabus,i did not intend to go), just to see her. and finally i went and we walked pass each other, like a stranger to each other. now i understand what it means by " zui shou xi de mo sheng ren ". but i dont have heartache anymore, i just want to see her. anyone whos experience can tell me what feeling is this? i myself not sure

means u are recovering already. It takes awhile to reach that level.
This post has been edited by aspire2oo6: May 2 2011, 12:38 PM