Go travel somewhere far, where nobody knows u, alone. Thats what i did, a month after i broke up, i travelled to japan for a month. sometimes i just walk around alone, went to starbucks, writing up my trip book, observe people and the environment, met some japanese friends.. n it helped me to move on. not 100%, but still.. it worked. Maybe this is a costly way of doing it, but it all worth it. Lucky me, i have a brother there, so saved up on hotel and food. otherwise, just spend a week or two there would do too..

as for getting over a relationship.... keep them as frens and start a new one lor... if u lucky she might call once a while and turn into a fubu

Just broke up after 12 years relationship. Very painful since i want to propose her during her birthday last week. Went to her hometown last week to suprise her but on that day, she engaged!

I woke up everyday realized she is not there in my life edi ~~
any advice on this ?
just broke up within a week

I still miss my ex although I have already started a new relationship. Even every moment my mind will kept popping up my memories with him. He used to love me so much and care for me. I am the one who gave up and go for another guy. and now i felt regretted. Too bad he already have a girlfriend now. I just cant forget about him, i go for another guy it is because I am 2years older than him I am afraid he might go for another girl since we have already coupled for 7years. He will only marry me another 5 years due to his mum said he cant marry early or else he will have to wives.

I met P at a charity party, and we exchange phone number n started to chat. After a few weeks of chatting, I felt he is the one who suitable for me so i left my ex. I know i hurt my ex so badly, he even came to my house beg for my forgiveness and trying to hold back our relationship. At that moment, I try to avoid meeting with my ex n after few times finally he gave up.

P is a good man, he is 5years older than me. He is a hardworking person but he is uneducated. At 1st I thought this is not a matter as long as he love n care for n willing to earn $ then its ok already. But recently we started to because of $ we quarrel. Due to when I am with my ex we never encounter this problem due to my ex from a wealthy family everything supported by his family. The reason I choose P, i felt he can support a family since he came from a poor family n earn $ all on his own. And i started to compare him with my ex which make him so angry of me.

Sometimes i think I can get a better man.. y should i be with him.. but I am afraid if i gave up on him i might be alone forever.. haix.. just dunno what i really wan..