hi.....I am new to this topic..but I would like to share my opinion regarding this topic..

I truly agree with the saying that a love or relationship is about give and take...

however..if you are the side who is more on the "taking" side...then it will be difficult on the day the love/relationship ended..in whatever way..

hence....for you to be able to get over a love/relationship...always try to be on the "giving" side...

so that...even if the love/relationship didn't go the way you lovely people have planned...it will be okay for you ....