finally i found somewhere where i can find a lil bit of emotional support. Its been few weeks now, feeling lonely and abandoned, not loved and constantly clinging on to my bed and kept hidden in my blanket.

but above all those, i have been constantly blaming myself for partly created an abusive relationship - in an oral way....like screaming when i found out that he has done something which crosses my boundaries.

I felt really bad to him and myself, but I cant help it when anger takes over. How can I make sure I don't do that in my next relationship.

It was a pretty bad break

After a few weeks or months, when you have settled down your emotions, try to read on stories on how couples can get married for so long and how they manage their romance, relationship, and how they do not enter the downhill stage, and remain in the comfortable stage.

This not only give you a more optimistic view on your future relationship but also how to choose a suitable partner and how to deal with relationships. And most importantly the signs to 'not a happy ever after ending'

Speaking from a broken hearted myself.

Meet more eligible men out there...its a good way to start. Imagine your level of affection towards him, you haven't even start a relationship with him...i cant imagine when you did and he lies to you.

Go date around, tell yourself you are single, available and has the option to choose. There are a lot of ppl who has common interest as well. I bet that fella got a lot of charms and many interest to suit all the other 8 woman's interest and be in common with them. lol. why be so frustrated for him.

Dont think he will be frustrated to lose you. He has 7 others to go to. He has option and YOU dont! He will never lose in the end anyway. You are the one losing your time, sticking to one, wasting your youth, while he has 8 others to fondled around.

In short, all i want to say is...WAKE UP

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Added on May 28, 2011, 11:49 pmand stop wasting your youth. find the best mate, not just pick someone who has something in common but has a huge red flag on him!

This post has been edited by Mellilot1234: May 28 2011, 11:49 PM