@Lost, I was like that too, felt so miserable and I even had the thought of commit suicide. I missed him so badly and I cried myself to sleep every night for the first 2 weeks. After that I ran away to places where I wanted to go alone, to cool myself off. I can say, somehow I found myself stupid because I live for someone else but not myself. I work very hard now but not for me to forget him, it was for myself to achieve my own goals. I set goals for myself to achieve, and those goals are all about me, no longer about anyone else. May be this sound selfish but seriously, we are here for ourselves, it's our life and why shall we live for someone else?

My dear, you can do a lot, I'm very sure that you can. I know I took a very short period to recover and stand upright again but it does not mean I was not serious with him and I did not love him that much. I think I've learnt a lesson, which is love myself more before I love anyone else. I think now I'm happier because I'm doing everything that I want to do for myself. Even everyone leaves you, you still have "I", "myself" and "me" for you to remind yourself who is the closest to you.

Of course, I still love people around me and I enjoy to be with them. I captured some pictures lately and I compared with those pictures that I took when I was with him, I think, I smile better and look nicer now compare to the past.

Hello Lost,

It's good to hear from you about it. You are strong to get through this, trust me!
All the best to you!

My pleasure. If you feel like you need a break or anything. Do get yourself some exercise. Say swimming for example or jogging. Maybe even dancing if you want to. At least it keeps your head up rather than your down and thinking of the unnecessary.

Take care though. Don't get so upset till you start doing unnecessary things too.

I am doing alright I guess (stressed up)? Been kinda busy lately with all my studies that's why I wasn't around here for a while.

What about you? How are you going with getting over? I hope you are alright and of course I equally feel glad that this thread together with all here who has posted up help Lost~*

Should we all here meet up to talk about current issues at the same time have a drink?

Lately I think of him slightly more, I think it must be because of the Valentine's day is near. I can still remember clearly the great moment we had together but sadly it is all past. I think I do not want to talk to him for the time being. Sometimes I feel that I should help him to forget about me.

this is the basic things abt a guy that u can not change one... its wut makes a guy, a guy... else they already become a gurl if they keep nagging about how they feel. its kindda gay....

and seriously.. for guys right.. there is NO one million things on their mind. guys oni think ONE thing at a time. when they finish settle that problem only they move on to the next stuff. we dont really do well multitasking. this is also a guy thing... we can only do one things at a time. dont try to force a guy to change this... its impossible

guys mind is not like a women minds which can worries about 100 things at once. its not that we dont care, but we are very mission oriented. its not that the gurl way is bad... its just thats how it is. that is why a guy get annoy when u tell him to do this one minute then the next u ask him do something else... then they will annoy and say back "so which one u wan me to do first?"... u ever kena this before?

for gurl its the other way round. u all worry about everything. but seldom hav solution to any of them. things that shouldn't be worried also u all worried. but.... this is what makes u all so great. because this is what the guy is there for. remember i say guy is very mission oriented? do u ever notice guy always try to solve ur problem even tho u oni wan him to listen n not to fix things. this is in fact the way guy is. we always try to fix things.. things we duno also we wan to fix.. hahaha...

the differences between a guy mind n a gurl mind isnt a character flaw in any side. in fact its actually an advantage. but its only become an advantage once u realize that the key is not to be the same... but to compliment each other. and that to me is the beauty of it.....