I just had one of the worst type of breakups - I discovered my bf not only two-timing me all these years but with a few other women around the same time.

I am coping very painfully by the hurt and the extend of his infidelities . Not only he did not apologized like a responsible man , instead he accused me of upsetting his (other ) relationship.

As such . no problem in overcoming step no.1 - deciding to get over it!

Rather I am now in pain on now how to overcome the bitterness, disappointments and low self esteem that I am being overwhelmed with .

I hope time will really minimise all these and I pray that fate will lead me to better things.
That is how I comfort myself every night.

Hi Futago,

Thank you for your kind encouragement. You are right- it is never our fault.
There is never a good enough reason to two-time your girlfriend behind her back all these years unless you do not really love her in the first place and who is so self-centered that he can think it is alright to be play around with people's trust and emotions just because he is still single.

Now I realized that all the while the excuses that he has been giving or any accusations that he gave are due to these actual reasons.

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Added on August 24, 2009, 10:53 amIf you find the worst of a boyfriend or girlfriend like mine (a two-timer or more than that) , you will immediately fall OUT of love and will not want to hang on to that kind of so-called relationship. Instead you will feel so much bitterness and sadness of such deceit and unkindness.

This post has been edited by Ash9470: Aug 24 2009, 10:53 AM