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Serious HOW TO GET OVER A BROKEN RELATIONSHIP, Post all "getting over" advice here

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post Dec 6 2011, 07:46 PM

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Just broke up too, he said i m dominating him with a lot of requests.. i hoping for his come back but i think the chance is so slim.. i hurt him by saying he was not putting effort and sincerity in our relationship, but deep in my heart i know he did, just me being too greedy want more from him.. he's right i m too dominate in this relationship and continuously hurt him by my words.. i regret.. does him really love me? heartbreaking..


@lice~~
post Dec 19 2011, 04:11 PM

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Once again my heart broke into pieces.. but i still need to pretend like i am okay and smiling.. no matter how much i hope to hold you again but i know it's impossible, our problem wouldn't be solved and we wont have a happy ending.


@lice~~
post Dec 20 2011, 01:55 PM

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QUOTE(Damian @ Dec 20 2011, 10:41 AM)
Women always want more and more from their partner. You gals never know when to stop and let the guy take a deep breath.
If you wonder does he love you? why don't text him or call him?
If you told him during break up to leave you alone and get a life... well, i would say he will leave you alone and move on by now.
But, in a slow pace.
time to move on.. things change and time change...
learn to let go ba, sometime good thing will fall apart. just the matter of time.
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For my case, i just hope to have a little bit more time to spend together rather than we just meet once a week for that few hours only.. while, he was always full with schedule with friends and other stuff, this made me feel i am not so important for him to spend some time with..


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post Dec 21 2011, 11:30 AM

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QUOTE(sniperz @ Dec 20 2011, 02:06 PM)
Well you can't actually expect much from the guy's side. Like 5 to 10 hours of meeting up doing happy stuffs you wanted, I think for a weeks or month it's sufficient. The problem is if you expected more than that, it can't happen unless married or already very strong bonded together.

I know how you feel. It's the same as in guys who prefer to go out with their girlfriends or fiancee rather than friends more. Life. Take it and see if there's any chance being together or the last would be moving on and wishing your ex the best of his/her life. The history is already there at the very least. Love.
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QUOTE(Damian @ Dec 20 2011, 02:47 PM)
Hmmmm... Well, my previous relationship required me 24/7 by her side.
Well, i tried to explain it that at my stage... i need friend and focus on my career.
When my ex gf at my stage, she realise what i've been saying is the same thing i told her back then.

Well, too attach would harm the relationship... too loosen aren't good either.
So, all about timing. This round.. you failed this relationship, you learn and grow with it.
What has happen already happen, we can't change the past.

wub.gif  Life must be Happy... no matter how many obstacle we face daily, because problem won't stay forever.
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Thanks guys.. i still need some time to get over it.. saw him online, but i cant like usual chit chat with him, that feeling is killing cry.gif
@lice~~
post Dec 22 2011, 12:38 PM

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QUOTE(vo0de3_x | oum@n @ Dec 22 2011, 10:30 AM)
last time one of my ex .... when i broke with her .. she told me she need to meet everyday only satisfy doh.gif
but i met her like 3-4 times a week ... nid to travel from far distance somemore .... lol
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I didnt request to meet everyday.. i know he is busy and a lot of friends to entertain.. i just hope to meet him a bit more only, maybe during weekend at least half day..



 

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