You can, now turn off your computer, go find a mirror, smile to yourself and keep saying that YOU CAN! Stop thinking how, stop asking how and stop planning how. Just go ahead to say, yes I can get over it. Yes, I can get a better life, and Yes, I am much better without you!


Oh, well I don't mind people to say I am ganas. I am who I am, no matter it is on the net or in real life. I guess I failed to put in a mask in the life of internet and real. I just prefer to express my thoughts and ideas as who I am.

I do have a very strong personalities, furthermore I used to mix with guys, so I might be a bit more ganas than girls, but I do have my soft part too. Well, I am a good wife material, many of my best friends and even my ex and his family said that.

This teaches you a lesson, do not under estimate a girl, and do not simply challenge anyone who you do not know the person, even if you do, please think twice.

i nvr underestimate u... n i will still continue to challange ppl.. i dun care

Your call to challenge anyone you like but one day you will get what I mean.

Oh, did I scare bruce away?

and what will i get?

A lesson for yourself.

Or if Bruce is mad at me?

a lesson.. im learning lesson everyday wor...

k la.. i crap wit u some other day... back to work

A lesson received everyday but never even take it to apply in future is useless.

hahaha... well...

White Lighter and Winnie Pooh,

I am pleased that both of you understood my intentions. Readers of this thread need to lighten up, feel good about themselves, laugh at themselves and stop reminiscing over their failed relationships . The latter doesn't help and will only retard the recovery process.

Slushie,

I can understand that you are still upset over what happened but if after 47 pages there is still no antidote as to how to get over a broken relationship, then in all likelihood, I doubt the answer lies in this thread. In all honesty, sticking to the topic of this thread will make you feel worse. It merely reinforces the Negative Feedback Loop.

If I may offer you a few words of friendly advice: get out there, be yourself and be happy again. Lighten up. Hangout and mix with happy people.

May I implore you to visit the following websites:

http://www.suite101.com/reference/happiness

http://lifehappiness.org/lifehappinesscoaching101/index.htm

Good luck and take care.

Willy_Wonka

willy spreading happiness

Willy, more likely this thread was created as only a guideline for people. There is no rules stated that people who have failed relationships must follow everything here to get over it. Perhaps, creator was only hoping to share a thoughts, as same like all of us here, to help the others. We all know it clear, how bad the damage it can be, some people might take life to recover from it, or some just very fast. No matter what it is, we just wish to help the person to recover as soon as possible and even some might just break up, will not do anything silly in life which might be regret badly in the future.

I believe Slushie understands your good deed in fooling around here to just help people to divert the attention on the word of "broken relationship"

yup.. but somehow it seems tht u already fully recovered liao

wah winnie gotten so ganas over the evening

well, for some, time do heal. even though what winnie has said earlier is very logical and make sense, somehow this sense really go out the window when the time comes or when it comes to love sometimes.

but alas, it's true, it is really up to ourselves to pick up the pieces and learn to be happy again.

i feel like i'm slowly getting there, and this thread do actually helps with some input that makes everything looks very possible.

it's good to have ppl that lighten up the atmosphere here too, it makes it less depressing.

slushie, gambatte or jia you u have to remember ur not alone!

Thankfully it's a more lively here already. Actually with the help of this thread, I did myself out from the gloomy days quite quickly because I know it's not a point sticking to the past.

~You're not alone... I am here with with... though you're far away, I am here to stay... ~ This song kinda emo la...

Well, I believe I've already recovered quite early

Oh, now everyone is linking me as ganas?

Well, since you know what I said earlier make sense and very logical then why want it to be gone at times? Sometimes, this sense goes away because we let it go, it has no legs to go by itself.

You're not slowly getting there, you are already there if you are able to knock the sense into your mind.

None of us is alone

u sound like Dr. Temperance Brennan from Bones

What makes you say that? Shall I take it as a compliment or shall I take it as a sad thing?

u nvr see the show mea? She oni thinks wit logic coz someone dispoint her last time. So this is z way how she rationalize everyhing around her

You do not get me.

A happy compliment : You link me with someone who is a DR!!!

A sad thing : I am not that old as how she is in the novel



I am sorry, I am not being logic just because of my past failed relationships. It is just I am willingly to stand up to be rationale when I need to. I do get emotional at times too but you have yet to see it. Do never judge too soon. I have never relate everything in my life with logic. I do believe in fairy tales too, and most important, I do believe in "dreams"