@ Lost, your willpower will be more than enough if you say it is enough. No matter how much you love him, you need to tell yourself that you love yourself more. If you love yourself more, you need to learn how to stand up again for yourself.

I used to countdown on the hours that I've managed not to talk/sms/msn or whatever with him, once 24 hours gone, I gave myself a small reward. Slowly, I increased it, to the extend of days, and now I actually do not even bother to rely on the reward because I just don't feel like it anymore.

I am sure you will know how to push yourself, we all know ourselves the best. You know, what is your weakest point for your to push yourself to the maximum.

Time is just an excuse we make for ourselves. I took less than 2months time for myself to get over it. Before that I thought I would really die just because it ended, who knows 2 months later I do not bother much about it.

I personally do not agree in that, people always say time will heals, but how can time which is just nothing that you can see or rely on, can heal a wound that caused by ourselves if we refused to put in the medication?

because time is for me the things tht makes me forget.. n once i forget... i stop thinking about it. i cant even remember her bday now anymore...

No, it does not work this way. We remember something because we want to remember it or consciously we remind ourselves about it. But once we put it into the subconscious mind, we will not be able to remember it. Time makes no difference. There are people able to remember things happened when they were small, but some are not. It is all depending on how a person place the memory in the brain.

I do not believe in this kind of fairy tale that time heals or whatever thing, I believe that we are the person to decide for ourselves, our happiness and our life.

okie... i guess im not the same as u then

I know I am a bit too logic into this. Honestly, we need some logic in brain to get us out from the suffer of emotions problem

im a very logical person.. but when comes to the matter of hearts... it just doesnt work for me... when i close my eyes.. my heart speaks and logic just goes right into the dustbin

If you are a very logical person, you should know one thing, heart is only an organ, it does not speak nor to tell you what to do. So tell me now, what does a heart mean? Check it out at its term. Do you still think that you are a very logical person?

Sorry, I was very emotional and I was too sentimental. It is not that I am no longer emotional but I know where to balance it up. A heart speaks? No, I know heart does not speak but emotions always drive us nuts, sadly we do enjoy it once a while, don't we? Emotions are also come from ourselves, so basically everything is all ourselves to decide.

Do not tell me a heartache, yes when you are having heart attack but not in a relationship. I used to like to tell my ex or my friends that I had a heartache, and I can say, it makes my emotions even worst. At the end, I put up some logic into the brain, where I feel, I am growing and there's no such thing as "heartache" when someone leaves me.

yea..true also then. i was just afraid if the mod will sound us only. haha. coz it seems like normal chat already.

swt... when i say heart.. i dont literally mean the heart as in the one pumping ur blood its just figure of speech..

k la.. i dun wan to argue wit u la abt this.. i can nvr win againts gurl.. its like my weakness

I doubt Baronic will prefer to see all of us here crying like a baby day and night right? The purpose for him to make up this thread was to help out those who can't get over their newly broken relationship. We are here to share our thoughts and as well experience (even though we might not be very experienced) to the others who might need a word or two from us.

Well, when you say heart, a heart means an organ which its function is to pumping the blood. What more a heart can do other than that? Since you said you are a very logical person, I think I have to talk very logically to you right?

No, it is not the matter can you win me or not but I think I've been showing to you that I am not a person who will be defeated easily. Even though I was once very weak.
*Yes, to all sisters out there, we are not weak! We win by making our life much more beautiful and wonderful! *

*kick* menyampah~

Sorry, if you kick me, I will kick you back more than twice. I am not a girl who get bullied and will sit down quietly.

come la.. i challange u...

You will regret, because I am not an ordinary girl who will not take challenge. Once I take, I can assure you I will never lose.


My ex said to me, I was strong when I was with him, during the break up time, I showed to him that I was emotionally weak in handling that matter even though I was able to handle all my other issues well. Anyhow, he is very surprised that I am now way much stronger than before, in fact I am way much more happier. I think that can consider as a compliment from him to me.

hahaha... so what exactly is this challange? see who can kick each other harder?

You were the one challenging me, shouldn't you know what to challenge with me?


I had a shoes that I could use it to kick someone until the person bleed. I still have it in my store room.

i'm back... still m trying 2 get over her...but still its so difficult....

wah..winnie so ganas even on a forum. lol

swt... crazy sia....

yea... kindda scarry