Care to elaborate more on your situation? Because I don't really understand your situation.

haha...same..
checked for updates etc.

Well, as for me I didn't initiate any conversations with her. I just felt like I rather be left alone and leave her alone. Seems like I am the one that is kinda hard on myself.

the situation is she keep on stalking me with another account i am very sure and its creepy she dunt wanna give up on me >_<

same here.

dont be too hard on yrself..
take things easy ya.

Oh... Alright you broke off with her if I didn't decipher wrongly? What I would suggest you to do it not to ignore her. Just be bold and tell her that you need sometime for yourself and for herself. It could work that way.

*Wink* I am taking it easy on myself too. But I think for the mean time it should remain as it is lo. It takes time to be able to be friends again. For now I am not ready.

yes i broke off with her.now i mau get over with her so im in here not to get back together >_>

What I do when "stalking" : Checking who she's been hanging out lately, what she's been up to, her photo, what she's doing, where she is going, who the hell is "that guy" and stuff. lol.. scary huh

No wonder... My suggestion is just tell her you need some time to prioritize what you want to do and you need some time for yourself away from her (ie. taking a break from her and from the relationship). I am putting it in a way how a girl feels la. Probably I am in touch with my feminine side.

But anyway, besides that it depends on how you want to deal with her. That is only my suggestion for now.

LOL that was what I did like during my first month after she called it off for me and her. But after that, I've started to accept that fact that she's no longer mine and there's nothing I can do about it. My friends told me, if I really do still love her, just her go her own way now.

I believe in miracles. Do you?

That's the last thing we can count on when u hit the dead end. and yeah I do believe it

Many things can happen right before our eyes now. But many more to come as well.

I tell myself this all these time, don't live life with doubts and with "if's and but's". Just do it, just live with it.

TS if i have any problem can i contact u ? lol she's gonna go oversea soon been together for 2 years sad hope her parents change their mind

dont go back to the one who break ur heart
coz one day they will break it again n again
=)

thats what i do when i first broke up...i tend to go to her fb page and see her latest update pictures etc..and i duno why i also get really jealous when i see her with the new guy...guess i'm stupid enuff to torture myself this way...

Well they might but in the end if he/she is really certain to be with you again the heart breaking issue won't be that often la. Anyway being in a relationship has plenty of ups and downs.

Same here. That's why... now... I don't even open her fb page, blog or even start a conversation with her on MSN because I don't want to remind myself about how things used to be.

Jealousy... Something that human can never get rid of.

This post has been edited by nice[jisho]: Mar 2 2010, 01:25 PM

Erm... Well there are a couple of ways to such as leaving a comment on every damn thing you put on your wall/photos and stuff like that.

This post has been edited by nice[jisho]: Mar 2 2010, 01:25 PM

That one I am not sure though. But I personally think, it's not such a hassle if you prefer not to bother about it.

ah yes...jealousy...it sucks real bad to be jealous of something we dont have or we used to have...but then if we were to clear our mind and put in positive thinking that we actually deserve better then i guess jealousy will be some form of motivation to propel you into being a better human. in various aspects.