Go travel somewhere far, where nobody knows u, alone. Thats what i did, a month after i broke up, i travelled to japan for a month. sometimes i just walk around alone, went to starbucks, writing up my trip book, observe people and the environment, met some japanese friends.. n it helped me to move on. not 100%, but still.. it worked. Maybe this is a costly way of doing it, but it all worth it. Lucky me, i have a brother there, so saved up on hotel and food. otherwise, just spend a week or two there would do too..

Try to keep zero contact. Delete all the text history. Delete her phone number to avoid checking on her whatsapp last seen. You will be able to feel the difference after few weeks. You will think of her lesser. Fill in your spare time with activities. Focus on your family, friend, career and also yourself! Consciously you will delete her very soon, but deep in heart, it needs time. If there is hatred, forgive. Keep only the good/sweet memories. Smile at the past and welcome your better future.

Mine is just crush though.

I was in love with my housemate, although I know he can't stand to be lonely and he likes to flirt around. But for some reason, I always feel that we have connection.

Sadly, what I hear from our friends (secretly) that he's not into me. I've tried doing things for him like hoping he is touched but to avail when a guy is not into me, he is really not into me.

Few days ago, at our common friends gathering, I found out that he was flirting with a PRC ex colleague (she's somehow younger than me) despite the numerous times he said that PRC is not his cup of tea. The same night, when we walked home, he was like babbling about his house chores, and me being pissed somehow blurted out 'Go and find your f***ing PRC girl to do for you'. From there, we stop talking to each other, to the extent me avoiding to see him around the house by keeping myself busy. He may be even thinking what the f*** is wrong with me to throw tantrum like that.

He even dated her the following day just to get things clear but I don't know what's the outcome and don't even want to know about the outcome. Right now, we have not been talking. After thinking for three long days, I should just patch up because since we are staying together and hang out often, just don't want to lose a friend.

Will keep myself busy to forget the past with him though. It may not be easy but I know I can make it through.

shit i cried.

am i afraid?if i accidentally see the picture..i will sad..
now since i know the person has instagram.and yeah they are looking happy together..
the heartache is still..occur.sigh

how to move on 100%
i dont care..go to die la i dont want to care anymore

these people deserve each other since they just use other people for their benefits.

i just want to live in a good way..

i am alone.and i am okay.i should be okay with this
im alone not lonely -quote from one day by david nicholls

From talking all the time to hardly even talking at all. From having a fun time to being cold strangers. Mood swing she says. She just lost interest. A total 180. Hard for me to accept but I can tell when it's over. And this one is gonna be over soon.

#spam 2

yeah.. much better
just let it go...



well if she lost interest, find another target to fits yourself

i'm broke too bro    hard to let it go... almost wan married.. but thn, disaster strike 

just let her go la 38

why u so struggling yourself haiz nowadays ==

i dunnoe la... last time not like this 1.. its feel like.. i switching role wif her.. so funny 1 de la... last time, she da 1 dat begging... cry for many months... thn after dat.. this time.. its my turn pula... now is almst 4th month od... geez.. and sometimes.. until now.. we still chitchat and talk... but x dat intimate.. she helps me to move on too... and sometimes she agree, dat its look like, we're switching role    i become her, and she bcme me like last time..

jilaka nie...

people troll u lah dude

manada troll... i knew her well... and i knw its my fault    its totally my fault cz not treat her good enuf..

No la bro.. U r at ur best.. Just not up to par wit her "good" leverl.. U shud know rite when u wit someone who u love n uve get comfrtble, u show ur inner self.. Ur true form.. Maybe when shee know u from time to time, u r not the type.. Anyway bro, stay strong.. I know it bleeds..

Inb4, ohmyengland

anyway... last time, i treat her bad... used to ignore her when she needs me... haha..   now i changing liao...

Hhaha if u admit u treat her bad then u know la why u lose her.. Take a lesson.. 😝😝

i wan win her back if can... she worth to spend for  try and fail better than fail w/o try.. jz the matter of time.. but i hope.. i manage win her bek

no matter how hard it will be or how hurt it is, try ur best to get her back if u tink shes worth it.. rite now shes single or wit someone else ady?

if single shudnt be so hard..but if shes dating someone else..

single..

cz she soo pretty.. many also other guy chase her la...    feel in great danger also.. jz came bek having lunch with her jz nw.... and looks stupid also..cz both of us haven go out since we break and nw we go out.. and we miss each other, we cry together in sushi king restaurant  i ask her why she cry, she scold me bcz i cry 

Walao wthel haha

Well seems like u both would get along toghter back la..
Just dont make the same mistake la this time..

200 views and no comments? seriously noone found this useful? and yet i see so many damn threads asking questions that are answered here. if u have any ideas, suggestions, or even disagreements, do feel free to speak out

2008 and i still find it useful...
i guess i passed through all the steps above...

but there is another problem...
our relationship was not just BF/GF... we were engaged...
so the break up did quite a lot of damage with friends and family...

1. and they tend to bring it up quite often...

i want too move on, find someone else and have a life...

2. but the fear of rejection/break up is still there...

what is your advise for the above 2 issues ?