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Serious HOW TO GET OVER A BROKEN RELATIONSHIP, Post all "getting over" advice here
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Newinrcheli
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May 18 2014, 10:39 PM
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QUOTE(meteoranthem @ May 14 2014, 05:44 PM) good2...success come with actions.. n remember to take everything in a positive way..^^ kalau jumpa dia tu..act normal yer..no shaking2, clumsy thingy please..(i used to be like that b4) sorry for late reply coz i rarely on9 here.. hehehe.. have to move on rite.. but u know what, last few days we bumped and he said my body is getting bigger...jeez need to work out nieh...lol... btw, go Newinrcheli go..  I always wanted to forget her but still cannot  , xkan jumpa dia lagi because she moved to other state. So we berusaha together
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Mooneyes
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May 31 2014, 02:13 PM
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My ex sms me this morning and told me she's two months pregnant. She gonna get engage the end of this month. Why she must tell me all this. Why cant she keep it to herself. Feeling so empty now. Feel nothing. This kinda thing always happens to me
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kelvin_87
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Jun 14 2014, 10:18 PM
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QUOTE(Mooneyes @ May 31 2014, 02:13 PM) My ex sms me this morning and told me she's two months pregnant. She gonna get engage the end of this month. Why she must tell me all this. Why cant she keep it to herself. Feeling so empty now. Feel nothing. This kinda thing always happens to me That baby is not yours rite? She just want to show off to you. You should be glad that she is not your wife...
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Mooneyes
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Jun 14 2014, 10:34 PM
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QUOTE(kelvin_87 @ Jun 14 2014, 10:18 PM) That baby is not yours rite? She just want to show off to you. You should be glad that she is not your wife... Not mine. We've been separated for 10 months now.
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kelvin_87
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Jun 14 2014, 10:41 PM
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QUOTE(Mooneyes @ Jun 14 2014, 10:34 PM) Not mine. We've been separated for 10 months now.  u have separated for just 10 months, so fast she got baby d... forget her bro. She not worth for u...
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kelvin_87
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Jun 14 2014, 10:43 PM
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QUOTE(Mooneyes @ Jun 14 2014, 10:34 PM) Not mine. We've been separated for 10 months now.  u have separated for just 10 months, so fast she got baby d... forget her bro. She not worth for u...
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Mooneyes
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Jun 14 2014, 11:21 PM
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QUOTE(kelvin_87 @ Jun 14 2014, 10:43 PM) u have separated for just 10 months, so fast she got baby d... forget her bro. She not worth for u... Happened to me two times already.
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lawtm
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Jun 22 2014, 12:53 PM
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recently i was chasing 1 gal around 9 months but still haven't get respond from her...haiz
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kagamistar
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Jun 24 2014, 01:45 PM
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ahahha we knew 7years..7years guys.then i asked to help my friend.now she is with the friend and left me alone. what a nice bestfriend, friend. hahah well not a couple case..but friend case...
and sucks too ahhahaha
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lawtm
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Jun 27 2014, 09:26 PM
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QUOTE(shanyuet @ Jun 27 2014, 07:46 PM) walao i put so many effort le and jst want give up like that????
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shanyuet
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Jul 1 2014, 03:51 PM
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QUOTE(lawtm @ Jun 27 2014, 09:26 PM) walao i put so many effort le and jst want give up like that???? 9 months my dear~ If she's interested, she would have already said YES. 9 months is not short baby! -.- more than enough for "introduction"
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Mx-ZAi
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Jul 2 2014, 11:26 AM
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Probably one of my hardest times in recent times.. Going to break up with my gf of 7 years.. Because we are not on the same page anymore.. Shes working and im still studying with a year left. She told me yesterday that her feeling towards me is not as strong as last time, and that she scare she will regret if she commit her whole life on one guy onli (im her one and only for now). She told me she felt contented with her life now, having her career and bunch of colleagues or what to talk with.. I cant stop thinking if theres a third party but she firmly tell me no and i choose to trust her on that. Now i just feel like shit.. And i would have to muster up the courage to break up with her in a while.. Hope i can slowly recover from this.. But 7 years is a long time..
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lawtm
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Jul 2 2014, 08:33 PM
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QUOTE(shanyuet @ Jul 1 2014, 03:51 PM) 9 months my dear~ If she's interested, she would have already said YES. 9 months is not short baby! -.- more than enough for "introduction"  this is to show my sincerity to her....waiting with my patience can show the seriously my love to her but until nw i still haven't get the answer....what should i do haiz
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shanyuet
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Jul 3 2014, 01:43 PM
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QUOTE(Mx-ZAi @ Jul 2 2014, 11:26 AM) Probably one of my hardest times in recent times.. Going to break up with my gf of 7 years.. Because we are not on the same page anymore.. Shes working and im still studying with a year left. She told me yesterday that her feeling towards me is not as strong as last time, and that she scare she will regret if she commit her whole life on one guy onli (im her one and only for now). She told me she felt contented with her life now, having her career and bunch of colleagues or what to talk with.. I cant stop thinking if theres a third party but she firmly tell me no and i choose to trust her on that. Now i just feel like shit.. And i would have to muster up the courage to break up with her in a while.. Hope i can slowly recover from this.. But 7 years is a long time.. Ouch! thats painful -.- But i'm not surprise. Girls are naturally mature thinker. When they achieved another level, they will tend to judge their partners. That is also the reason why! Girls fell in love with guys who achieved more or even have higher salary than they themselves. I assumed your gf now is comparing you and herself. "My bf is still studying, i'm working! And hey! Working men are soo attractivee!! My bf is still a student! Hey look! that finance guy look charming! My bf wore t-shirt still, le sigh! And yikes! Who's that guy over there!  He wore tie, leather shoe and wow! Coat! Must be high level in his company!" Hang in there buddy! I know its a pain but no worries! You'll find a better one (if *touchwood* you both didn't make it) You'll pretty soon step into working society and soon will have lotsa girls attracted to you. Trust me!
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shanyuet
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Jul 3 2014, 01:50 PM
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QUOTE(lawtm @ Jul 2 2014, 08:33 PM) this is to show my sincerity to her....waiting with my patience can show the seriously my love to her but until nw i still haven't get the answer....what should i do haiz How old are you, my dear? Haix.. I do not want to comment more since you're so persist in that girl. I'm just a passerby~ BTW, my friend who waited for a girl for nearly 2 years, finally got a gf and is not the girl he persist on. LOL! Come to see the whole picture, I realized that, he found a better one! And my gawd! You should see that girl face when she knew he found a gf! She turn back and wanted to start new with that guy! I felt so annoyed. I hope there's no Korean drama starting anytime soon or any third party. Fuiii....
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lawtm
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Jul 4 2014, 05:17 PM
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mine already old liao le....25 years old
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shanyuet
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Jul 4 2014, 06:05 PM
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QUOTE(lawtm @ Jul 4 2014, 05:17 PM) mine already old liao le....25 years old am only 24. so i go diam diam sit at the corner *sit corner*
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LimYiHui
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Jul 6 2014, 04:03 AM
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QUOTE(lawtm @ Jun 27 2014, 09:26 PM) walao i put so many effort le and jst want give up like that???? So are you hanging in there because you really do love her, or because you do not dare to give up, or are you still hanging in there because of the things that you did for her in the past?  No offence bro, just plain asking because I do not know anything about you or the girl. But all the same, I hope you find happiness whatever you do!
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lawtm
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Jul 6 2014, 08:27 AM
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QUOTE(LimYiHui @ Jul 6 2014, 04:03 AM) So are you hanging in there because you really do love her, or because you do not dare to give up, or are you still hanging in there because of the things that you did for her in the past?  No offence bro, just plain asking because I do not know anything about you or the girl. But all the same, I hope you find happiness whatever you do!  i really love her that i was really serious in relationship and must loyal to relationship lo but i will give up anything for her this known as power of love.....really challenging relationship
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