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post May 11 2008, 06:54 PM, updated 18y ago

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hi all,

i've posted some time ago asking how to know whether a guy likes you or not.

well, it turn out that my guy do like me and have confessed his feeling to me. i like him a lot too, that without seeing him one day can make me feel so hurt and miss him so much.

my problem now is...he's 7 years senior than me... i'm in my 20s, and he's in early 30s.
i am afraid that one day we will lose connection due to the age gap....or, shall i say, i am scared that he'll freak out because of my childishness (well, i'm still young and still have to 'energy' to enjoy young life, while he is a mature guy ready to settle down when he find his love of life)

he has been telling me that to him i am a mature young lady and that he has no issue for me to go out and enjoy my young life -- he assured of the freedom he will give me until i am ready to settle down...

despite all his assurance, i'm still lack of confidence to be the perfect girlfriend to him....i need to know, how do i be a mature and charming young lady so that i am able to capture his heart all the time while at the same time enjoying my young, 20s' life?

to me, age is not a problem, what is important is the 'feel' and connection between two persons but still, i need advice on how to move along with an older guy...

anyone has the experience of dating a guy at least 5 years older than her? guys, your opinions are welcomed too...

This post has been edited by ranul: May 14 2008, 09:37 PM
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post May 11 2008, 11:05 PM

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You should stop thinking the negative points. Think positive! I believe the both of you will have a long lasting relationship. Stop worrying.
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Given the way you post, I think you're mature enough, and I do think he'll understand.
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post May 11 2008, 11:10 PM

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Do note this - if given a choice - a lot of guys will want a younger gf, even up to 10 years.

Do not worry about unnecessary thing, it's make your relationship shake. Just enjoy your relationship.

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post May 11 2008, 11:14 PM

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age is juz a number my dear.
my sis's bf is elder than her 10 years. my sis is in her early 20s+ & her bf is in his 30s+ .
well,they can get along very well.as the guy tolerates with her alot.
it is alwiz better to find an elder guy than younger or same age with u one.
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well, u dont have to worry about capturing his heart cuz uve already have that ticked on ur checklist. u just need to mantain his desire for u, and there's no one better to tell you how to do it than yourself. find out what is it about you that makes him go crazy over you. find out your strong points and utilise it to the maximum to enjoy ur life in confidence, he will automatically be attracted and drawn to ur very own world. find out your weaknesses and work on them.

and, most importantly, dont forget to constantly remind him of how much he means to you, and that you are madly in love with him.

that's about all the right things i know to say. all the best xD

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My dad and my mum - 7 years gap. smile.gif
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QUOTE(ranul @ May 11 2008, 06:54 PM)
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hi all,

i've posted some time ago asking how to know whether a guy likes you or not.

well, it turn out that my guy do like me and have confessed his feeling to me. i like him a lot too, that without seeing him one day can make me feel so hurt and miss him so much.

my problem now is...he's 7 years senior than me... i'm in my 20s, and he's in early 30s.
i am afraid that one day we will lose connection due to the age gap....or, shall i say, i am scared that he'll freak out because of my childishness (well, i'm still young and still have to 'energy' to enjoy young life, while he is a mature guy ready to settle down when he find his love of life)

he has been telling me that to him i am a mature young lady and that he has no issue for me to go out and enjoy my young life -- he assured of the freedom he will give me until i am ready to settle down...

despite all his assurance, i'm still lack of confidence to be the perfect girlfriend to him....i need to know, how do i be a mature and charming young lady so that i am able to capture his heart all the time while at the same time enjoying my young, 20s' life?

to me, age is not a problem, what is important is the 'feel' and connection between two persons but still, i need advice on how to move along with an older guy...

anyone has the experience of dating a guy at least 5 years older than her? guys, your opinions are welcomed too...
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Feel and connection is one thing that keeps the relationship alive, but understanding is one thing also. When it comes to experience and maturity level, i believe age does represents something but expectations are the one that differs. He might expect from you something and you too might expect from him something but what if there is collision of interest regarding experiences? Things like those could create arguments which in the end might cause disagreement and thus you and him might blame the age. If i'm you, to tolerate and even understand a person older than me especially nearly 10 years is even harder than you tolerating a person which his or her age is near to ours.

My point is our expectation is way different when it comes to age. Try solve that out then you may understand your personal issue that troubles you in your heart. Age doesn't matter but the expectation of the older ones that matter. Good luck....
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QUOTE(ranul @ May 11 2008, 06:54 PM)
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hi all,

i've posted some time ago asking how to know whether a guy likes you or not.

well, it turn out that my guy do like me and have confessed his feeling to me. i like him a lot too, that without seeing him one day can make me feel so hurt and miss him so much.

my problem now is...he's 7 years senior than me... i'm in my 20s, and he's in early 30s.
i am afraid that one day we will lose connection due to the age gap....or, shall i say, i am scared that he'll freak out because of my childishness (well, i'm still young and still have to 'energy' to enjoy young life, while he is a mature guy ready to settle down when he find his love of life)

he has been telling me that to him i am a mature young lady and that he has no issue for me to go out and enjoy my young life -- he assured of the freedom he will give me until i am ready to settle down...

despite all his assurance, i'm still lack of confidence to be the perfect girlfriend to him....i need to know, how do i be a mature and charming young lady so that i am able to capture his heart all the time while at the same time enjoying my young, 20s' life?

to me, age is not a problem, what is important is the 'feel' and connection between two persons but still, i need advice on how to move along with an older guy...

anyone has the experience of dating a guy at least 5 years older than her? guys, your opinions are welcomed too...
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This is trick that use on all guy including me..... Trust me.....

U will regret no matter u try or not try.....

So, i sugegst u give a try to know the future result....

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Guys need a longer time to "get" matured. tongue.gif
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My parents are 6 years away from each other.

To me, maturity doesn't depends on age, but you yourself.
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well, i posted this kind of thread b4. me and my bf gap is 14yrs appart....so far so good. wub.gif

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post May 12 2008, 11:23 AM

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well how about you try this

(His Age / 2) + 7 = the minimum age he should be dating. xD

it's just a guideline though.
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i think the main concern for you is whether you still can enjoy life without being attach or get settle too fast rite laugh.gif, so it's simple by planning well about your future and putting priority in your life like you do what want to enjoy life and stay committed to the relationship, cheers happy.gif
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I am pretty sure if this becomes an issue, you guys can settle it...
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QUOTE(runemastertan @ May 11 2008, 11:10 PM)
Do note this - if given a choice - a lot of guys will want a younger gf, even up to 10 years.

Do not worry about unnecessary thing, it's make your relationship shake. Just enjoy your relationship.
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this topic is waking me up again! i am in the dilemma for these few days. I am in the early 30s and so surprise a 21 yr old gal is tellingme that she like to be my life partner.. i stop keeping in touch with gals after my 4 yrs of breaks and presently being a filial son looking after my only mother. I told her to go away cos she is young and there are plenty time more for her to learn, enjoy and grow up instead of attaching with someone old like me. She refuse and insisted that she will behave mature and sharing my burden in anyway - which i don't have 1 for her. i ask her many times why she choose me and she says she love to be a man that love his family like i do. But to me... i don't trust this cos to them... these are just words that playing in her mind just to convince me to accept her.

see... its easy to say .. age is not a matter at all but ... gals at the young age is eager and thirst for love and companion which they have yet to experience before since their childhood. I cant blame them much for that... but why an old man? i've seen alot of cases where young gal intend to fool around and some will leave their partner when they reach the age of 25 to 28 after realising something much more for them to learn and go thru than attaching to someone reaching a wheel chair or somewhere near to coffin. Be honest age does matter.... it is just that couple never sit and think what are the consequences being together... diff thoughts diff need and diff perspective.

think about it....
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So what? My parents have a 7 year age gap and they getting along so well. It's not the age but the same wavelength, and goals and vision for the future.
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QUOTE(SadGuy2 @ May 12 2008, 01:10 PM)
this topic is waking me up again! i am in the dilemma for these few days. I am in the early 30s and so surprise a 21 yr old gal is tellingme that she like to be my life partner.. i stop keeping in touch with gals after my 4 yrs of breaks and presently being a filial son looking after my only mother. I told her to go away cos she is young and there are plenty time more for her to learn, enjoy and grow up instead of attaching with someone old like me. She refuse and insisted that she will behave mature and sharing my burden in anyway - which i don't have 1 for her. i ask her many times why she choose me and she says she love to be a man that love his family like i do. But to me... i don't trust this cos to them... these are just words that playing in her mind just to convince me to accept her.

see... its easy to say .. age is not a matter at all but ... gals at the young age is eager and thirst for love and companion which they have yet to experience before since their childhood. I cant blame them much for that... but why an old man? i've seen alot of cases where young gal intend to fool around and some will leave their partner when they reach the age of 25 to 28 after realising something much more for them to learn and go thru than attaching to someone reaching a wheel chair or somewhere near to coffin. Be honest age does matter.... it is just that couple never sit and think what are the consequences being together... diff thoughts diff need and diff perspective.

think about it....
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I agree with the bold words.. but it apply to normal couple too.. some just think they r "click-able" then can get together...

As for ur case, a young gal can b as mature as a matured gal.. if u r doubt abt her mature-ness y not start as fren 1st n get to know her more.. maybe she is the one for u.. well, family background, environment, n problem she faced can make her more mature than her age.. give each other a chance..


As for TS, b more confident to urself n b urself.. he likes/love the one is ur current 1.. if u hv changed just bcoz of him then wat's the point he love u for? yes, u need to upgrade n improve urself but not changing urself... n i agree wif one of the post here.. find out wat make him love u the most n try to utility it to max.. eg ur smile, ur happy-go-lucky style, n etc.. we should love ourselves more so that other can love us more too.. wink.gif


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QUOTE(spunkberry)
(His Age / 2) + 7 = the minimum age he should be dating.
Hmm so when I'm 30, I can date a 30 / 2 + 7 = 22 year old girl?

Huhuhu ... so now I should go look for those fresh out of spm girls and "booking" them first hahahaha.
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lol you know, those older people, older generation, age differ by 7 years nothing big to them.. its very normal... and yet, now they still happily together wat.. but dunno why nowadays no more such things happen ady.. i know, elder than you 7 years is quite a big issue.. but since he like you and you like him too, then can try lo... still depends on you and him..
you ok, but he not ok, then nothing's gonna work..
if you ok and he's ok with it too.. then good la.. biggrin.gif
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Im 27 (for a moment i forgot my age),my GF 25. TBH, albeit hvg a babyface, i feel tht im very mature (atleast thts wht i opine of myself)....i used to like speed n raged the road, now i prefer comfort, lik beemers i still lik integra tho lol i used to say i can love/wait a girl for many yrs n believe i wud...now its just sorta take it or leave n many other stuffs. notso impulsive like i was younger too n less emotional....we only 2 yrs different oni le but she's extremely childish, cuz of her character although a well established career lady....its nt a bad thing to me anyway. i tink it kinda balance up. so its a go(od) for u tho. and really, age is really just figures.

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Haiz...Let me tell u something...As long as u love the person than its enuf...love doesnt depends on age,height,weight,skin color,races,religion and any other related stuff...so don go think of the negatives..Juz hold on to him..
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TS,ENJOY WHILE U STILL CAN,or else u will regret it once u settle down. icon_idea.gif
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my bf is older than me by 6 years. i was only 20 when we started dating. after 3 years and going strong, age isnt a problem at all smile.gif we're getting engaged
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QUOTE(deodorant @ May 12 2008, 03:02 AM)
QUOTE(spunkberry)
(His Age / 2) + 7 = the minimum age he should be dating.
Hmm so when I'm 30, I can date a 30 / 2 + 7 = 22 year old girl?

Huhuhu ... so now I should go look for those fresh out of spm girls and "booking" them first hahahaha.
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fresh out of SPM is 17. What are you talking about?
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7 years is not such a huge gap if you ask me. But the "enjoying your young life" sounds fishy, if anyone notice?
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QUOTE(ranul @ May 11 2008, 06:54 PM)
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hi all,

i've posted some time ago asking how to know whether a guy likes you or not.

well, it turn out that my guy do like me and have confessed his feeling to me. i like him a lot too, that without seeing him one day can make me feel so hurt and miss him so much.

my problem now is...he's 7 years senior than me... i'm in my 20s, and he's in early 30s.
i am afraid that one day we will lose connection due to the age gap....or, shall i say, i am scared that he'll freak out because of my childishness (well, i'm still young and still have to 'energy' to enjoy young life, while he is a mature guy ready to settle down when he find his love of life)

he has been telling me that to him i am a mature young lady and that he has no issue for me to go out and enjoy my young life -- he assured of the freedom he will give me until i am ready to settle down...

despite all his assurance, i'm still lack of confidence to be the perfect girlfriend to him....i need to know, how do i be a mature and charming young lady so that i am able to capture his heart all the time while at the same time enjoying my young, 20s' life?

to me, age is not a problem, what is important is the 'feel' and connection between two persons but still, i need advice on how to move along with an older guy...

anyone has the experience of dating a guy at least 5 years older than her? guys, your opinions are welcomed too...
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You're assuming 30 years old guy can't enjoy young life. The problem is you not him. Change your mindset.
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i like man in their 30s... they know what they want in life and know how to treats a lady right (well... not all but most of them). just be yourself in the relationship. he knows how old you are and how you're like before stepping into the relationship smile.gif. enjoy your 20's responsibly and let him enjoy life with you. i have many friends in their 30s and they're really fun to hang out with smile.gif smile.gif. be yourself, after all it is YOU that he fallen for smile.gif
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fresh out of SPM is 17. What are you talking about?
I'm not 30 yet mah. Gotta target a girl that will be 22 when I'm 30, so target SPM girls lor biggrin.gif biggrin.gif
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QUOTE(unknown warrior @ May 13 2008, 10:21 AM)
You're assuming 30 years old guy can't enjoy young life. The problem is you not him. Change your mindset.
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I wonder what does "enjoy" means?

Is she saying she want to enjoy/play/flirt with other guys that kind of enjoy?
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QUOTE(deodorant @ May 12 2008, 10:34 PM)
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fresh out of SPM is 17. What are you talking about?
I'm not 30 yet mah. Gotta target a girl that will be 22 when I'm 30, so target SPM girls lor biggrin.gif biggrin.gif
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ahahahahahahahaaha you're too funny. I wouldn't care too much about age though...but I would prefer older men.
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QUOTE(WaCKy-Angel @ May 13 2008, 11:44 AM)
I wonder what does "enjoy" means?

Is she saying she want to enjoy/play/flirt with other guys that kind of enjoy?
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i mean enjoying what young girl will do @ crazy weekends with friends, night out with siblings and cousins, etc etc ...which mean a lot usual activities that i enjoy before starting the relationship.... not the flirting/playing with guys... (i am not a flirty anyway..)

i am aware that he doesnt ride on roller coasters....my all-time favourite.....but this shouldnt be a barrier right? sweat.gif

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u dont know "Ginger 也 老 也 辣 ? tongue.gif:P:P:P:P:P
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of course if 57 years old man and 50 years old woman doesn't sound any difference.

but if the guy is 18 years old that makes the girl 11 years old. pedobear lol.
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QUOTE(ranul @ May 14 2008, 09:43 PM)
i mean enjoying what young girl will do @ crazy weekends with friends, night out with siblings and cousins, etc etc ...which mean a lot usual activities that i enjoy before starting the relationship.... not the flirting/playing with guys... (i am not a flirty anyway..)

i am aware that he doesnt ride on roller coasters....my all-time favourite.....but this shouldnt be a barrier right?  sweat.gif
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I see no problem..

Have u heard of ppl runaway at their own wedding?
If u watched alot of TV u will know wat im talking about.
In your case, u are afraid with just dating...i wonder wat will happen on your wedding.. tongue.gif
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QUOTE(ranul @ May 14 2008, 09:43 PM)
i mean enjoying what young girl will do @ crazy weekends with friends, night out with siblings and cousins, etc etc ...which mean a lot usual activities that i enjoy before starting the relationship.... not the flirting/playing with guys... (i am not a flirty anyway..)

i am aware that he doesnt ride on roller coasters....my all-time favourite.....but this shouldnt be a barrier right?  sweat.gif
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don't worry so much gal. older man have got their career to busy themselves with, they will appreciate your independence laugh.gif but do make sure to set time for each other smile.gif smile.gif

it doesn't matter, as long as he's willing accompany you to the park biggrin.gif biggrin.gif

what's more important in life is not finding a person who's 100% like yourself. that will only be your clone (where's the fun!!!) but finding someone who's willing to be by your side through the roller coaster ride smile.gif opposite attracts..... the two of you may just "compliment" each other nicely.
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QUOTE(rourou @ May 15 2008, 10:23 AM)
don't worry so much gal.  older man have got their career to busy themselves with, they will appreciate your independence laugh.gif but do make sure to set time for each other smile.gif smile.gif

it doesn't matter, as long as he's willing accompany you to the park biggrin.gif biggrin.gif

what's more important in life is not finding a person who's 100% like yourself.  that will only be your clone (where's the fun!!!)  but finding someone who's willing to be by your side through the roller coaster ride smile.gif  opposite attracts..... the two of you may just "compliment" each other nicely.
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You must have plenty of young girls around you notworthy.gif
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Thanks for the advice new Dr Love
You must have plenty of young girls around you notworthy.gif
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i only hope to have you by my side blush.gif
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QUOTE(rourou @ May 15 2008, 10:41 AM)
i only hope to have you by my side blush.gif
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But but but i'm not young any more cry.gif
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age is not an issue if we loves each other truly, madly, deeply wub.gif
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QUOTE(rourou @ May 15 2008, 11:06 AM)
age is not an issue if we loves each other truly, madly, deeply wub.gif
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vmad.gif mad.gif vmad.gif mad.gif

What about me? This second u told me u love me.. now u go n tell her u love her.. cry.gif


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vmad.gif  mad.gif  vmad.gif  mad.gif

What about me? This second u told me u love me.. now u go n tell her u love her..  cry.gif
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my heart is torned~~ cry.gif cry.gif cry.gif my love for you is unwavering... this i'm sure, but her presences makes my heart race
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QUOTE(rourou @ May 15 2008, 12:15 PM)
my heart is torned~~  cry.gif  cry.gif  cry.gif my love for you is unwavering... this i'm sure, but her presences makes my heart race
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err....y is there suddenly triangle love battle in my thread?
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age shouldnt be a problem i guess....as long as both of you clique very well together... smile.gif

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If u really love him thn u should be mature then, since he is adi in that level, and u have to be that level somehow, try to be mature abit. If u are too young to enjoy ur life, he may feel bad
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QUOTE(@lice~~ @ May 15 2008, 11:31 AM)
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What about me? This second u told me u love me.. now u go n tell her u love her..  cry.gif
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dont worry, i will be here for you... hehehe, juz jk...
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post May 24 2008, 05:12 PM

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QUOTE(anti-informatic @ May 23 2008, 02:34 PM)
If u really love him thn u should be mature then, since he is adi in that level, and u have to be that level somehow, try to be mature abit. If u are too young to enjoy ur life, he may feel bad
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if the girl is mature mentality, just that sometimes purposely act childishly (read: cute)....is it acceptable?
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QUOTE(MiLKTea @ May 24 2008, 05:12 PM)
if the girl is mature mentality, just that sometimes purposely act childishly (read: cute)....is it acceptable?
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yeah, dun be a serious cat in the relationship. a smile a day keeps the heartaches away.
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post May 25 2008, 08:14 PM

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QUOTE(MiLKTea @ May 24 2008, 05:12 PM)
if the girl is mature mentality, just that sometimes purposely act childishly (read: cute)....is it acceptable?
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This kind of ppl is exactly my type, coz shes not really childish but like to act cute sometime. So she still can be serious when doing work or things that should be do-it-seirously. As long as her childishness doesn't make any1 angry
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why dont u try out the relationshiup first
n when u hit a cross road u can deal with the problem...
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post Nov 9 2008, 09:08 PM

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to be 1's perfect some1... confidence is but a small part of the requirements... another important element is the effort and how far would u go for him... wink.gif
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post Nov 9 2008, 09:24 PM

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then what bout .... lets say a girl who is 5 yrs older than her bf ?unsure.gif

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QUOTE(kikipi @ Nov 9 2008, 09:24 PM)
then what bout .... lets say a girl who is 5 yrs older than her bf ?unsure.gif
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same... as quoted from my mum... liking some1 is so easy... living wif each other is the hard part... how far u can tolerate... biggrin.gif
"leong kor yan seong chu zui kan nan"...
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I think the only problem you would have would be that he's much older and therefore more ready to settle down ... whereas you just entered your 20s. Seems like this isn't a problem to him so why worry?
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TS, u must have confident on urself. flex.gif flex.gif

"he loves u not because of who you are.. he loves u becoz of what you are."

dont think too much ya.. your relationship will last long forever.. don't worry so much.


good luck.


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Ranul,

I have dated a guy six years older than me. I never think of the 'confidence' problem u r having bcoz v can communicate and understand each other very well.

And I have female fren who date wit guy age 31 who ten years older than my fren. Quoted from my grandma, "Guys who in 30 in the age would not fool around so much bcoz they wanna settle down."

Well, if you really like him, you wil find solutions to your problem. share your problem wit him whenever u hv one.

All the best girl.

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QUOTE(greenie^panda @ Nov 10 2008, 12:39 PM)
TS, u must have confident on urself.  flex.gif  flex.gif

"he loves u not because of who you are.. he loves u becoz of what you are."

dont think too much ya.. your relationship will last long forever.. don't worry so much.
good luck.
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I tot is the other way round??

"He loves u because of who you are, not what you are."

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I tot is the other way round??

"He loves u because of who you are, not what you are."
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opps, sorry for the mistake.. hhehehe...
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U need not think much to change urself dear, u might not feel good when he is so mature but u are not, but that does not mean u need to change to what he like, just be urself is very good.
Think on his side, since he love/like u, why not he love/like everything of u, maybe he more prefer on young girl who know how to enjoy life.
Think on a good side, ur thinking of enjoying life can be on of the reason that he like u, cause early 30 is almost hard to enjoy life, majority in the process of fighting for career, which is a hard life. Knowing someone who good in enjoying life is a good thing.
So just cheer up, age gap that affect communication may occur but if both of u like each other, its not a hard thing to settle, thats what i think la
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