When you find out he slept with another girl "accidentally", that time you're gonna go crazy. Plus if your man don't drug, don't drink too much and have self control, he won't sleep with other woman, then no lie will occur.

This post has been edited by Goliath764: May 2 2008, 09:25 PM

How sure you are that confident enough to know that your man will not tell you? I believe you yourself know your man, right? But if you would allow me to say this. Secrets can never last. Though as much you believe ignorance is bliss but you have to understand that its not easy your bf to hold the guilt if he did what you mention and yet still be together with you. I can tell you, its really gonna eat him alive. Sometimes its just not about you, its about him also. Take your time, thinking about his part. Maybe he will syiok sleep other woman, but you have to understand the complexity of human nature. To be with you while cheating behind your back is kinda hard so i believe a loving bf will definitely tell the truth even though he will risk losing you. Constant suspicion = insecurity and you are right, it will only lead towards break up. Though past builds what you are today but i believe you shouldnt use your past as precaution to the future. I understand if you're being 'risk-averse' but still i believe for what you and your bf have now, let it be you and your bf for now. How it will end, it is still going to be the reason why 'you' and 'your bf' end it at the moment. I don't think so using past as an excuse or a reminder to what happen in your past is going to help you judging how it is going to be. Still its a very rare case that secrets can be keep till forever. Maybe your bf could lie to you, but imagine if you hear other ppl talk about it. Wouldn't you be suspicious? You can't prevent ppl from gossip. Your heart will be uneasy.

It's actually quite true with your words . No secret will kept forever . No words will bring along with death . this is true . No matter what , don't ever hope that your relationship will end as you're still with him/her . due to your self confidence might lost . anyhow , risking to lost her had been decrease as what peinsama said , you would like to hear that your man with another woman outside from your friends or 3 ku 6 po ? Perhaps , this will bring your relationship end worst think about your past , count for your future my girl .

YES!!!!
everyone has their skeleton in their closet

Wait....let me find eminem song...'Cleaning up my closet'.....

Its good to have a small secret that only keep inside ur heart.
Sometimes its no good to let other people know everything out of u

everyone lies, whether in the relationship or not, cause human is always being in the state of judgmental, we lies so we can avoid not to being judge by the wrong way, it's actually depends on individual on how big their lies is, if you can keep as clean as possible with out lies then good for you, but not all people are having a great life, that's why lies is needed to gain back their confidences or perhaps ego.

for me i'll won't tell big lies, cause i prefer much to honesty, even if i have big secret i'll wait for the right time to tell, cheers

YES!! but i wouldn't call it lies... i would call it secrets

yes..secret itz better den lie lolz...

Maybe she/he is blind.......how can a person can't see your background........unless a long-sighted person with color blind........