Hi , I'am curious about this . But I use to be 100% no lying to my girl friend . Know what , to me and her , we discuss everything , including girls & guy which attracted us in life , cool huh ? . It's was like kinda weird sometimes for being so , but still , i feel more released & no worried in what I've done which worried she might get angry with .

In another hand , what I know from others ( my close friend which is male ) said that , Guy should lie with a minimum sentence due to long last the relationship ( i feel like craps cut out my ear in my brain == ) and some said Guy should lie , don't tell her ( your girlfriend ) everything , she might feel unhappy if you tells her .

For girl , do you think you want to hear a happy tale with a fake story line ? or you would like to know the true story which hurts your heart by a Angel Lover Arrow ? ==

Wondering , why still I have full confidence with my soul mate as still others says wont be forever ? Am i doing the correct thing ? Please state you vote "YES" ( should lie to make your partner happy ) or "NO" ( should be generous ) , and of course your sex ( e.g : male or female ) before commenting . thx guys , hope comment below of forumers may help others out there too

Edited : Info added-in that I'm Male & our relationship has gone as far as 19 months now

This post has been edited by EX-tremE: Feb 18 2009, 03:31 PM

female

i wont tell everything unless he asks.
my background's too shoddy. might freak him out

i dun like to lie to my bf... i know also that he doesnt lie to me (he sucks at it haha). why is there a need to lie to the person ur spending the rest of ur life with?

Hurmx , how come ? isn't like it's weird if your friends suddenly pop out and talks back bout when you all were enjoying at somewhere with someone ? It's not fair for him to be standing there knowing nothing but still listen with patient ?

True words freak no ones out bahx , perhaps lie may slip him off ==

i lie for goods...

I like your words , you're so generous . btw , you said your boyfriend doesn't good in lying to you ? You're one of the lucky ones except for my girlfriend ( future wife ) . But still , there's ppl lying each other for life . Who knows ?

well, i can't be giving him a blow by blow detail of my life before him, can i?
even if he's not bored, my mouth also will be tired.

like i said, if he ask, i'll tell. i dun tink some things like how many guys u slept with, whom was the best in bed, wat tactic they did to turn u on is something he would want to know.
probably he would like to learn it himself.
if i go to a certain place where my x n i used to hang out, if i tell him that when we are there, wont it give him the impression that i am still not over the ex?

As your profile shows , you're a Male . Actually , you're the one I wanna chat with . How come you said so ? Is it that our girlfriend is too sensitive in every matter or what makes you lie to her ? Mind to share what " for goods " you mean as above ?

As ussual , if your girlfriend knows it , you might get thrown to the deep sea as her heart needle is there . Lolx , get what i mean ?

Girls Heart , Sea Deep Needle

"generous"?

perhaps coz we understand each other that well? i can somehow tell if he's making up a story. he stutters a whole bunch of nonsense, its obvious. thats why he never tries lol.

This make sense too huh ? aiyukx ! This is life . The idea of this topic blows my white hair out sia .

But as what i mean wasn't those sensitive sentence / words that your soul mate / boyfriend doesn't mean to know

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Added on April 29, 2008, 11:50 pmCongrats firstly , You're the lucky one who picked-up the stone with jade inside it ! Appreciate and share others comment here but still , i hope couples out there get to learn others experience here xD

This post has been edited by EX-tremE: Apr 29 2008, 11:50 PM

haha thanks... well.. me and my bf... i mean fiance (whatever lol)... we do share stories about our exs. minus the intimate details of course. but we do talk about where we've been, what we've done, what funny thing they said... past is past, its all cool la... we got no skeletons in the closet

Jyezze , I agree with you about past is a past thats why me and my gf share about our transparent background

lol our background is so transparent that he has met one of my exs, and i even say in front of him "he was my 1st bf, u know. long time ago when we were 16".... and he also chatted on the phone with his ex in front of me too.

he knows about my nerdy past, my gothic fashion interests, .. things that will usually put a guy off.

i also know about his daily clubbing past, his flings... things that i will disagree to.

but all these things are the past, why dwell in it now? focus on the present and the future~!

My background too cham..she will cry =-,-

Jyezze , I'm standing on the side of yours STILL . lolx . same thinking good to have the mine !!

i lied to my ex on how much i earn
he earns less than i do. i dont want him to feel sad or something la.
so i lied for good

This post has been edited by lil`pumpkinz: Apr 30 2008, 09:45 AM

a white lie is good.

lie for happyness... unless she/he has ur hasben or wife...

Lolx , your sex is ? should be female huh ? though it's not good to lie for thay if you plan to be with him for long-term or marriage issue >< don't be naughty since tht was a past ( your ex ) so with this 1 , be more generous ya !

what do you mean by white lie ? can't get you

huh ? what you mean by he/she does have a busband or wife ? seems complicated ouhx

Refering above , it's like , 50% of couples doesn't have a clean background and 50% does . How come !

u can't aspect male/female to be 100% truthful with their partner de...
both parties surely have something to hide from each other de...