browsing the forum for the past few days ... wondering ... why do we gals like to compare then self-pity hur?
is it a nature thing or what?
like today 1 of my friend was complaining to me about how her bf not good, how he neglect her, bla bla...
if he's tat bad, why still be with him? if u love him so much, why u only focus on the bad point?

Greed is good - Gordan Gecko.

i believe all girls will always complain about everything.

is that not true?

come on admit it, u always complain! be truthful

Donno about you, but girls always want to make it as though they are always the victim of everything.

i never complain

when i finally start to complain, i just quickly apologize and change the topic

now i finally get tired and walk away. he's so surprised, ask me what's wrong, but i have too many things to say. easier to walk away.


so sometimes u must remember to complain.

mayb your friend just wants u to listen to her because she got no one else to express her feelings to.

i believe that if you love someone, you can talk to them about that you dont like coz its very important to be honest in a relationship

Good point
http://forum.lowyat.net/index.php?act=ST&f...0#entry17051056

If it's a complain means your friend expect you to do something after her complain.

So, that's not considered complain lor.. that's sharing. Just listen lor..

its just being human. ppl are never satisfied with what they have. alwiz want more~ more~ more~

thats so true i guess. but does it apply to girls more than guys?

haha or issit just that the guys just keep it bottle up inside

maybe thats y it seems like the girls always complain

lol!

coz girls mostly like to yap yap yap bla bla bla this n that... on and on and on...

and guys just uhuh, yea, whatever, hmm

Some girls just like to share their feelings with others, talking make them feel better... And some just don't like to share. Same with guys too, y'know...

err..the course of true love never did run smoothly..
juz accept all his or her shortcomings if v do love him or her..
personally, i think it'll b good to b natural..and leave everything to the chances..

haha i guess it's part of the nature tat gals like to gossip, complain, compare ... if a gal keep everything for herself, dun complain, dun gossip... is she still a gal?

but complain doesn't mean we're greedy...
we voice out coz we want to improve the situation ...
but guys doesn't seems to understand ...
now it sounds like i'm complaining ... lol
the one who doesnt noe how to be contented seems like me! haha

Girls complaining a lot and always because we want to make the things get better as soon as possible..not like guys..they just like to keep everything secret..ask got anything problem anot..said dont have..when start to quarrel..and the girls started to say everything that is not good about the guys..then the guys only start saying all the things out..and blame back to us..

i dun like to gossip n yes i keep most of the thing to myself bcoz i cant find someone tat i can trust o a good listener to share.. so mean i m not a normal gal?

start feel to admit to change ourselves rather than to complaint other jor.. keep complaining other wrong doesnt help u anyway
cos no matter how good is that people there wont be 100% perfect

It's nature girls like to talk to someone bout their happiness or sadness. It's not like they are showing off or something, they just want someone to acknowledge them so that they will feel better.

let's sum things up.

since its nature for girls to complain, then guys should be compliant and listen to what they whine`about lo. listen only, no harm done.(maybe juz need use few more cotton buds to unclog the 'dirt' afterwards =)

yeah yeah ... guys r more defensive... they always say don care/ nothing, bt actually the most kepo one could b them! lol

nah, u'r stil normal. coz u'r tellin us who u are now! lol
and u explain the reason u keep thing for urself, coz u cnt find one tat cn b trust! lol
and tat's whr forum comes in ... keke

oh well... nobody's perfect.. correct, therefor we sld voice out to try to b perfect... lol
i noe i'm lame .. lol

it shows tat u dun understand gal...
i dunno abt other gal, but for me. i'm nt only looking for listener... i nid audience and mu audience sld have some response to my performance.
when i'm expressing myself, i would love to get some feedback ... why sld i voice out if i dun expect anything?

no one are perfect..girls are no 100% perfect because they like to complain..complaining is something can used to realise stress..

you are normal la..dont worry..

This post has been edited by ~*~jAs~*~: May 6 2008, 03:01 PM

when there is competition, there is improvement

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Added on May 7, 2008, 12:07 amwhen there is competition, there is improvement

This post has been edited by kanzakicyn: May 7 2008, 12:07 AM

This is human nature, somehow we always got room for complaints and improvements. I dont think only gals did that, guys also same. We just cant stop comparing and complaining.

Human vision mayb one of the widest you can find in the whole animal kingdom but the heart still very small.

i tak faham