People, when you ask a person of age 14 to think wisely....
i'm sorry to say that, she cant think wisely. SHe has got no experience in life. Her life is threaten. Dont spoil her life ask her to decide, hope you can give your opinion wisely.
....such a pity situation. I would strongly suggest Moontank to write to Big Brother in The Stars newspaper.
Sometimes I cant even decide the best for myself and I got regret. But my matter is small matter. Her's matter is like life and death. Is very critical.

The way she speaks as i know, she's still very immature and naive. She has a very strong and loving family and all these has ruined by just a 38years old BF. Parents disown her. She's from a well educated family and she can has a very good education and bright future.
Please, can anyone tell me that life with a gangster will end up to be good? I have no offence cos my friend's tailou is a good person.
How many tailou can be like that? Her BF(tailou) wanted to commit murdering. After all love and lust gone off her, he can slap and beat her up. dont say tailou, some guys also do that.

her dad easily make the tailou in trouble in a legal way,
her bf easily make the father in trouble in an illegal way.
Her dad can win anytime. But put his family in a deepshit situation, which is useless.

Her grandfather has asked her to get away from him. I think her grandfather has made the best decision for her with his experience.

Family love and care is the FIRST priority in everyone's life. Some case you can argue is exceptional. But I can guarantee is not hers.
Moontank, go back to your family. Its just love. When it goes, then you'll realise your mistake that you commited.
Dont ruin your family. Go back and apologise. Your family WILL FORGIVE you ...trust me.

tell me he's good when he wanna find his hengdai kill your dad.
because your dad wanna call police.

you hope your family and your bf can be together. Its a good thinking.
but think properly.
tHey are from 2 different world.
I once was fell into the deepest....and i've climbed back up. Now I'm in UK doing my Master degree

civil engineering.....pls no out of topic here...anything just pm me...

i just dunwan moontank's life ended up like that.
i dont think her family will ever care if she bring a shame to her family.
I believe her parents want her back.
I really dont guarantee her bf will love her forever.

Moontank, I know its hard to accept it, when I'm in love, people telling me that my gf is this is that, it just dont go into my ear. She's a princess in me.

As you said "chong dong zo siu siu". Can you guarantee it wounldnt happen again'? How many times more 'chong dong zo siu siu' going to happened? What if you didnt get to stop your BF killing your dad on time that time. just a small timeframe of carelessness.. you dad is now in heaven. that time i dont think your family will ever wants you back.
you life will be with kongsi gelap..ever.

Mark my word. Think for yourself. Decision doesnt really my business.
After you decide, ...remmeber be responsible with your decision. Recall my words,.....and you'll grow and more mature.

I've got so much work to do...If i dont think this is important, I wounldnt talk so much in this topic

wats outsider see is clearer than whats you see

some tai gor will turned to be good.
some tai gor who always thinks he's hero will die.

I didnt say your life will end, but you are RISKING it.
your background and his is just 2 both different world,
you choose to go into the world just because of LOVE.
you are 14 and you ask ppl dont say you are young. I'm 22 and have much more experience than you also admit that i'm inexperience.

Girl, I've walk more than you see more than you.
I didnt say its bad to be with tai goh, if he's good, initially already ruin your relationship with your family, your friends around you changes.

base on wat you said
"ok.. i love him.. love my family too..
can they both together ?
mayb this will good ending "

sorry, the world is not like that, you are still in your fairytale land

your bf can jadi your daddy la....
he keep u as pet like that, outside how many gals you duno la.
until you realise, too late liao ..

this is wat i predict and assume...no need to be real

wei....you all dun talk crappy stuff ok...its a life.

moontank, maybe we all dont know him, so canot say he's bad or good.
i admit that. I didnt say he's bad, but there's a risk, maybe he didnt show you his true face. you still duno who is he.

if you willing to change. there's a lot of way.
i still think the most important to put your family 1st your list.