in my opinion its better to go back to your family than following the so called tai ko bf
now u have fun this n that very sweet, after married
-u will suffer if financially not good everyday argue about money

-day and nite worry u duno when sudd walking ppl come whack or slash u

-like my fren (rich feler) got piss off by a gang of chinese gangster mainly the tai ko and he just make a phone call, 1 hole group of frens come whack the crap out of the hole chinese gang and drag the tai ko to back lane leave him there wif hand patah and half dead

-dun forget u also must care is there a secure life for your kids in future also grow up corrupted would again have a case like u having problems wif your parents

-besides the so call tai ko, also a pro in smoking rite??he dont die , u also die 1st la smoke like drink water only

since u came from a well educated background family, im sure after u graduate from high school there are plenty of guys out there, have money , well educated , at least your parents wont be that worried about u when u are in safe hands of a trusted husband. besides not just that , if u wan be wif that tai ko , u would really make your parents hate u for life and regret and better born a char siew and your parents would live their rest of the life malu and cant live in peace.
(im not trying to talk cock and sing songs, i have seen this problems before of my fren (also a female) end up also break up wif the guy, now that so call ku wak chai struggling hard to get 2 meal a day.