Apr 14 2008, 05:07 PM
QUOTE(geekaboo @ Apr 14 2008, 04:15 PM)
well, lets see this helps...
I was one like you... dump by someone who no longer love me...
it took me 3 years for full recovery, and now i am still so much alive and happy...
one thing i found out was, the main thing why we cant forget the ex who dumpe us is because we dont have a single idea why he did it that way, even though we have tried our best effort...
sometimes it is not that we still love him... sometimes it is the reason we cannot reason out that make us cannot move on. you have few options to forget him:
i. try to tell yourself he is no longer worth your love... what for love for someone who dont love u anymore?
ii. convince yourself you are not the reason of the breakup, he wanted it because he has his issues... not you...
iii. you can cry anytime you want... letting it out is the best way to forget an idiot *opps*
try to commit yourself to your wonderfully understanding boyfriend now... from the way your mentioned, he is much better and there for you...
Yup, it's easier to let go if u know why he broke up with u. I'm not sure if this sound crazy. But if u do need to find out why he dumped u, just meet him for one last time & sort it out. Whatever he's going to say, just listen & don't do anything to patch back coz this will make u look cheap (no offense).I was one like you... dump by someone who no longer love me...
it took me 3 years for full recovery, and now i am still so much alive and happy...
one thing i found out was, the main thing why we cant forget the ex who dumpe us is because we dont have a single idea why he did it that way, even though we have tried our best effort...
sometimes it is not that we still love him... sometimes it is the reason we cannot reason out that make us cannot move on. you have few options to forget him:
i. try to tell yourself he is no longer worth your love... what for love for someone who dont love u anymore?
ii. convince yourself you are not the reason of the breakup, he wanted it because he has his issues... not you...
iii. you can cry anytime you want... letting it out is the best way to forget an idiot *opps*
try to commit yourself to your wonderfully understanding boyfriend now... from the way your mentioned, he is much better and there for you...
& it's true that you shouldn't be taking his words hard coz he has NO POSITION to criticize you for who you are (if he does, tat's means he's STUPID enough to like you in the first place rite?) Furthermore, no one is really at fault in a relationship, it takes two hands to clap.
& I believe you should just let go of your emotion & don't try to be strong when you can't. Plus you have such a considerate bf now, try to think for him (even as a friend). You wouldn't want to hurt him rite?
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