had a co-worker had the same problem... cried for 3 weeks almost everyday at work. Cannot produce my cheques on time, called up by the boss, went on EL (emergency leave), than annual leave, everyone tried to talk to her but she just shut down and shut out everyone.

2 mths later she's bubbly and jumping around back to life as usual.

I guess u just need more time to get over it, u need to speak to ur bf abt this problem and hopefully he will give u all the support u need to get through hard time like this.

No worries u will get over him

Well u can try and occupy urself with something?

Try and do something that is not your routine... cause sometimes long relationships are like ciggarettes...
For me I just get addicted to it, feeling a bit tense I smoke, or if I am in a specific location (a usual place where I smoke) I will take out a stick and smoke.

I try to stop smoking by smoking different brands of Ciggarettes to discourage myself or change environment or work non stop at work so i dont keep thinking of smoking...

Its the same concept with relationships..

If ur Ex use to kiss ur cheek on the left, u kiss ur current on the lips
or a place that u use to hang out wif ur ex, go to some other places...
don't do things, go places that give u back memorable memories of your Ex.

If u need time to grieve do it, cry as much as u can, cry ur heart out if u must... take ur time doing it ... or go on top of a hill and shout your guts out.

haha... np, now going to office to be screwed by boss and work my guts out.

you take care!