feels like he jz want ur accompany mean while to get other gals as his gf

really ah? i also feel like that. I always feel want to ignore his call when he calls but i still cant do that coz still love him....so depress lah...

u can do it if u believe u can

[quote=lohoh84,Apr 21 2008, 12:27 PM]
hmm... 3 mths of separation. Do u mean that in this 3 mth u n him never contact each other?

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we got contact each other. the latet news is he told me that he can't give me an answer when i come back. He wants to date me like go movie and eat together to find his love back for me. Dont u think is silly? or he just playing me?

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i also dont know. he also told me the same thing. he wants to start all over again. my case is different.. we dont contact each other for 1 mth. i also very confused. dunno whether this 1 mth is for me to prepare myself to let go this relationship. i m also very depressed.

putus ur r/s with ur new bf because u still think of old bf.
get a holiday, start afresh

not fair to new bf because:

a) u using him to forget old bf
b) after u forget old bf, there is a chance u wont need new bf, u will get into trouble (if u know what i mean)
c) ur emotion now not stable, cant judge properly
d) now is chance to analyze if there is anything wrong in ur way about a r/s

so, get a break first.

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Added on April 22, 2008, 2:37 pmmau, ambik, takmau, lepas.

no need to be baby sitter.

i know not easy, but easy things in life are normally not valuable

This post has been edited by Petre: Apr 22 2008, 02:37 PM

yaya... i truly understand ur feeling... my ex together with me around 7yr jor.. also break up ending... that really very HURT.. but outsider dunno actually how weak than our heart to accept that face... i totally cant fully recover till now... is getting 3mth liao... v hv been experienced to much thing together in this 6yrs.. it's really GREAT MEMORY with him.... but..... the fact.... HE DUMP ME... and get marry after 1mth v break up... IT'S HIM WHAT I KNOW... how could i so stupid din realise another girl existing in his heart b4....

But... what i hv to do now just can WISHES them HAPPINESS.... nothing else i can do... LOVING HIM so hope he can get his own HAPPINESS ...

i'm not gonna say 'i understnd' coz i wont.

a better deserving person will come

err..
loving doesn't mean possessing sumone..
On the contrary, v should wish our loved one lots of hapiness.
True love is indeed hard to find..
time wil heal everything..
it takes time to delete a relationship from our memory..
but v wil b able to make it eventually..
i hav the same experience as u b4..
but now i know who is the one i love most..he is my present bf..
our relationship is stable..v both was hurted by our ex b4..
n thus v appreciate our relationship ^^

erm... i guess the hardest part about breaking up is not forgetting but moving on rite?
don't try to forget abt ur ex, u sld move on wid the sweet memory ...
it's tough i noe, bt u cn do it if u tried hard enuf.
tat's what i am now. cherish watever u have and b contented.
if u confirm u dun love ur current bf, then better cut it quick. dun hurt him.

buang jus oren, baru bule masuk jus tembikai. kalau campur, maka tak sedap ler

erm... dun understand.... meaning?

new thing..i been alone now..i think not fair to be with my bf..i think its time give some space to each other n some time for myself.. bad day bad life..mm..

means, put ur heart into your new relationship, no need to keep space in the heart for old one.

my gf used me during the holidays and dump me after wards...

the next holiday i went exploring the world and never regret every since ^^

I might be young, let's go out to visit some pet shop and meow meow around. I think pet is a best way to release stress... Or we can go FTZ for dota haha..

Well, if you are animal lover, i really would suggest you get some pet to accompany you, they make a good companion... especially.. my taby.. meow...... man i miss him.. zzz... nah let u see him, but no buat harta...

http://bp2.blogger.com/__rBn89Q6XPk/R9ETU7...-h/Image263.jpg

ahh paste the link urself into the web, something wrong with my browser, goddamn it..

Anyway, LYN here is a big community, you can always meet us, or you can move on around to look for us, and i think *some* will find you too



This post has been edited by a13solut3: Apr 25 2008, 07:46 AM

yeah, u'r neve alone!

hi..hehe..i do have cats..my lovely baby ..he been with me for 6 years now..this his pic..


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