because most girls are so weird about that. just because a guy admits that he likes you doesn't mean that you can't be friends with him. girls are so paranoid like that...it irritates me to see a girl not want to be friends with a guy anymore just because of that.

their fear of accidentally leading the guy on when they're not interested is the main reason. They don't want the guy to be all pushy and infatuated with them.

This post has been edited by spunkberry: Apr 11 2008, 01:24 AM

Why is it so?Just these merely views of them caused they to be mean with their exes.
I personally think that the so-called of fear of exes falling in love with them should not and never be the reason to prevent them from their lives.It's shouldn't be so.Well,first,they may just clarify their situation,and explain to the another half that it is nearly impossible for them to be together but still keep in touch with each other.Isn't it be so?

I tried to be friends with all my exes. My first doesn't acknowledge my existence anymore. My second is still hurt but we still talk. I'm definitely still friends with my third.

absolutely rite...dats the way gal always do..

With all the replies from us, I hope TS will get the message and accept the ugly truth..

Haha you are the one who dump them of course different story lar. If your current bf sleeps with some other girl and gets her pregnant, would you still be inclined to remain friends with him?

Haha good point there...

same here..i juz wanna be frens with my exes...i became frens with my 1st ex after 1 year din talk ...but previous 1 we r not frens anymore...she doesnt even want to meet me...

there's alot of girls out there, don always meet the same girls la