hope i can have some of your time and read my story

I used to have relationship with a girl,let's call her A
we've been couple for almost half year,yet it feels like very long
we had alot of sweet moments together,which i still remember till now
we broke up after the 6 months of long distance relationship
it was i who mention break up
why?i wouldn't blame anyone except me
being so foolish to follow every of my best friend's advice
let's call him B
we used to be housemate together,we studied at kl
same area but different college
it was then when i'm in relationship with A
B kept telling me bad stuff about her
and at one time,he threaten me with friendship
he said,you forget about your friends when you got a girl already.
In fact i did not
i admit i did some bad stuff to them,as i was always the loser who tried to hard to be in the group of friends
in order to keep this friendship intact(it was 10years of friendship)
i apologize to him,and try to spend more time with my friends
and i neglected A.
soon after that,we had some minor break up
then another friend of mine C
who had feelings toward A try to tackle her during the break up
i did not know until i patch up,when A told me about it
i was furious,really angry about it for i really took C for friends
B and his friends,talk with me.
saying it was A's fault for C to fell for her
indicating that A is using C and try to stir things up
the me back then,i was naive
i thought friendship were everything
i thought they were my true friends
and yet B told me that C is innocent
and i had a major broke up,a big one 2 days before my birthday
we broke up,and i blurted out alot of harsh words
and yet she still gave me my birthday present and even came to find my parents and cried in front of them
i doubted,recalling what my friends told me
i acted cruely
i'm not any good boyfriend either
being in long distance,i'm unable to give her anything
sometimes i would really end up broke while i'm studying in kl
i rarely call her,due to saving my expenses
for this i failed terribly as a bf
she would travel all the way from our hometown to kl just to find me
and yet,i couldn't afford to treat her to a nice meal
or even buy her some shirts or skirts
i was very cheap,way too cheap
having this for one of my reason i kept in mind
i broke up
blurting out harsh word,accusing her for flirting around.
i know that,i'm an ******* for that.it was more than that

soon after that,B betrayed me
having me thought as a dumbf**k,sore loser and naive guy
i knew that,and i really had a major break down
cause all along i thought he was my best buddy

and my thoughts are comin back
i pull myself out of the group,and i know i had lost myself in attempt to join the group
for few months,i constantly have thoughts bout her
thoughts that how bad i am,how cruel i treated her
how cheap i am
been avoiding her since the break up
i couldn;t explain why,but i guess i'm just too ashame to meet her
and i owe her an explaination,why i mention broke up and such
am i pathetic or what
listening to my friends and negelcted what she had done for me

end~

thanks for reading

This post has been edited by yukikaze: Apr 7 2008, 02:54 AM

so you want an answer to your question?if you do then yes,you are pathetic among others...

path-etic... swt.. u believe ur friend more than ur own girl.

yes i do admit i am
and i felt like i'm a...dumbf
i wanted to tell her that what ive been keeping
but..does it really matter now?

if tell her would make u less miserable, then tell her lor..

it does matter. u dont want to regret it later in the future. would u? u owe her explanation .u must give her explanation

i don;t even know how to start
face to face?
i for one who's..tear easily to come out
i thought of tru mail or whatsoever
but it's like...not sincere

no matter how hard,you must tell her face to face..it's the best choice.

face to face la tai lo.. aiyo.. tear or not, 2nd.

thanks for taking time to read and even posted some advices for me

nite peoples
i'm off to sleep
college gonna start tomorrow
i'll keep in mind for what you guys had posted here

u only live once. u either apologise to her, or keep ur mouth shut till the day u die.

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Added on April 7, 2008, 4:42 amu only live once. u either apologise to her, or keep ur mouth shut till the day u die.



This post has been edited by Elephant^^: Apr 7 2008, 04:42 AM

I pity your gf. She is innocent.

Who need friend when you can have girlfriend? Ever thought of that?

ask yourself this question. will it be different this time? would you give her the love she deserves? or would you just take her for granted like you used to? now that your so called friends betrayed you, only you realise she's a gem? BAH!!!!!! so is she a spare tyre to fill your time when you feel you're lonely?

treasure those you have before it's too late. i wish you luck if she'll ever find the confidence in you again.

sayang~~~~ sayang~~~~

well as the saying goes, we do not appreciate good things till its gone.

tell...truth...her...now... fill in the dots yourself =P... tell her every single detail... it might be able to salvage and repair...

syg who?TS or the innocent gal?

pss...pss.... I haven read the story yet xD

read, them maybe you'll say dai sei also

This post has been edited by rourou: Apr 7 2008, 10:28 AM

TL;DR

zzzzzzzz

whaaaaaaa........... i read all liao......

=,= .... sayang the girl~~~

u should stand on your own feet. Trust on your own instict + own eyes but not friends or others. ...haih.....

dont trust friends for theres no real friends in the world.

Should say dai 9 sei.

Aih.. real friends and real lovers are hard to find.

heh,i am dai 9 sei
i don't hope for anything at all
just that thinking back then,i really do owe her alot things
in sense of being a bf



you're right
i dont deserve anything from her

Can i be ur personal friend?

there's no need to try hard to be in a group of friends.

juz be urself, and u'll eventually make friends ur comfortable with.

sayang me laa..

well face 2 face best of the best choice

2nd . word is still better den face 2 face too sometimes.

but to be honest and sincere is face 2 face.

there are real friends in the world... you just need to look at the right criteria

i very si man one..... dai sei is enough

learn from the past... wish you a better tomorrow. don't give her any more undue heartache.

buaya no 1

buaya no 2

maybe i'm just too dumb to see who's real friends and who's not
i fell hard,really hard
i cant hope for anythin
but well,at least i'll tell her everything it will be better right?

damn...

tell her what?? tell her you're sorry that you believed she's a cheating b**** cause you trusted your friend more than her? how would YOU feel if someone is to tell you that do you think she'll feel better?

oh or are you planning to tell her on the betrayal part?? so that she'll feel sorry for you and be your gal back? just be honest and we'll sort that part out.

you want to win her back don't you after you finally realised that your friends are jerks? if yes, then do it. if you just want her to feel better then don't. cause she wouldn't.

what you wrote,u got a point
then i think i know what i should do
and btw thanks for landing it hard on me
=)

This post has been edited by yukikaze: Apr 7 2008, 12:59 PM

so long lazy read

i'm an a55hole who never appreciate anything

end =)

the question is... wat r u gonna do about it...?

winning her back is the least i'll do
i'm worst than i am now
friends?
they'll betray me someday
only a few of them are at least true and sincere to me
i rather fall even harder than i am now
at least i would know what's missing

pffttt i finally finish reading...

No use feeling sorry for yourself. it wont do any good.
Take it as a lesson and get her back.

If she still love u then it wouldnt be hard.

good for u to realize all of it... ever since i was 6... i never trusted any1 i met... i'm as cold as tat... but then i need to socialize due to "unexpected consequences" resulting me getting lots of characters now...

take a break , find another one .
and when u meet another one , u will feel stupid of wat u doing now

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Added on April 7, 2008, 1:38 pm

programmable characteristics and emotions ,
just enter the key...

This post has been edited by AngelOfDestruction: Apr 7 2008, 01:38 PM

yes...

CK...

If u do reli love her , n she still cant forget u ... try to get her back no matter wat .. don let the time pass .. if not soon she will forget everythng abt u n her memories .. Do anything to get her back ...

all the best

don't loose faith in ppl know who your true friends are and cherish them. don't trust others so easily... judge for yourself

To further verify you're pathetic, i didn't even bother to read what you typed at all, yet alone cared even a little after i saw your last line that said, 'Thank you for reading'.

Seems like you are lacking any form of attention.

well to you,i might be trying to get some attention
in fact was trying to be nice asking advices and help from the forumer here

=)

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Added on April 7, 2008, 4:56 pmwell to you,i might be trying to get some attention
in fact was trying to be nice asking advices and help from the forumer here

=)

This post has been edited by yukikaze: Apr 7 2008, 04:56 PM

so long...

Sound just like the Bold And The Beautiful . . .

how i wish i'm in some tvb series
but thats not gonna happen

u should never introduce ur gf to ur hamsap lou friends. they will lie, cheat just to get into her pants. remember this well when it comes to gurls it is a fair game, winner takes all. you are not pathetic, just that you believe in ur friends too much and lost the game

This post has been edited by Avex: Apr 8 2008, 12:38 AM

Well hopefully she is viewing this thread....

dear ts,

i noe hw u feel. my ex also got spanar by my friend. but from what you said it seems like its not all lost. much better than wad i've been through before. won't be flaming you. people makes mistake.

but put this in mind plz. if you are going to treat her the same way then better not. let her find her hapiness with someone else. but if you are willing to change, i will say go for it. at least u learn sth now. who are your frenz and who are not.

and an advice. not all girls wan fancy dinner and fancy clothes and their bf spending a lot on her. it just shows when she comes all the way just to see you. what she wants is just to meet you. just spend some quality time together.

the besy gifts are not bought, it is made. it shows u are sincere. i wish u all the best. and plz do treat her well if u get back together. a nice gal is hard to find and so is a nice guy. treasure wad u haf. u will never realize hw important someone o sth is to you until u lose it.

Hi TS,

May i know what is ur horoscope? Libra?

Anyway, i suggest to go for her again.. talk everything out n show her ur sincerely n u wiling to change/improve urself..

T_T pathetic.. really pathetic..
but you know what? you're the victim, why are you blaming everything on yourself? blame it on your assholes friends will ya? they're nothing but piece of shit.. seriously they suck big time.. they hate A so much? for what?! omggggg or they just want to bully you ? shit la they all.. really suck man.
i din know there are these frens in the world until i read ur story.. oh f***
its ok! we don't think you are stupid or what... naive, everyone USED TO BE..
so now its time for you to grow up, try to listen more on your friends/girlfriend..
and analyze whether they're speaking the truth or not..
and u din think about your gf one meh.. GOSHHHHHH!!!!
get her back now..

TS, join my emo thread, and look more pathethic. please... I beg you...

haven read can simply syg2 ah?haha~

yeah agree on ur point that we should trust ownself.
however i still believe that there are true friends out there thou many times believe wrongly..hhmm..


how much does it cost?

if u SERIOUSLY realised that u are wrong,
if u SERIOUSLY love her,
if u SERIOUSLY care bout her,
if u SERIOUSLY think that u can do better to be a good man for such a girl,
get her back.
TRUST, is what that matters most in a relationship.

if theres a single NO for the above criteria, dun even bother to get her back and end up making her heart bleeding for u again.

*and yes, u were ****ing pathetic for being such a foolish idiot.

This post has been edited by yenx: Apr 8 2008, 02:42 PM

wah~ so emotional wan aa u?
this is just a thread story wor
if see movie then ma u more emotional lor...
then if see live love story mai more "gan jeong"..haha~good good...a person who still very emotional
i wonder will u blush if a guy confess to u

u should apologize. like, sincerely.

to her lah

Noob lo u.. being pawned rite in front of u, u still dunno wat happen..

becareful when choose fren.. wat la u.. zz...

1st thing kick those fren out first.. scold them.. dun giv face.. fcuk those muthafukers..
Best fren konon.. no need to depend on them la ***..

if u still want back ur gf.. then be honest to her.. tell her u're very dump to listen to ur "best" fren instead of having faith and trust on her..

gd luck

all needed to be said have been said...

gud luck TS. And i strongly agree the phrase : Why do you need a friend when you can have a Girlfriend? ( the most despo phrase ever! and its so true )

emotional meh? i thought its normal cuz his frenz really shitty....
erm of course will blush lah.. LOL...

i dun agree wit u..

for example: can gf help u when u in a gang fight or in big trouble.. oni real fren will help u..

u can oni share happiness wit gf.. but u can never share big trouble wit ur gf.. (ur gf will say solve it urself)

i believe u dun have real frens to make such a conclusion..

it's all down to how u find real good frens..

This post has been edited by kahhuat86: Apr 8 2008, 06:18 PM

I hope you die

LOL I only read the first post.
What I can conclude is ... TS don't know how facial expression can actually tell us who is actually cheating.
Even sometimes with the first impression, you can already judge how that particular person actually done in his whole life. Are the things he/she did is more towards goodness or is it more towards something bad.
TS just do not have that kind of ability. I think ...

EDIT: Oh and smart people will always be able to make up for both sides

This post has been edited by SeeD: Apr 8 2008, 07:50 PM

we must learn to pick up ourself once fall down.
use the existing time in our life to do the better thing than
remember the good thing.

cymon say so.

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Added on April 27, 2008, 1:11 amwe must learn to pick up ourself once fall down.
use the existing time in our life to do the better thing than
remember the good thing.

cymon say so.

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Added on April 27, 2008, 1:16 amwe must learn to pick up ourself once fall down.
use the existing time in our life to do the better thing than
remember the good thing.



This post has been edited by cymon: Apr 27 2008, 01:16 AM

received a message yesterday nite
it seems.....like she sent wrong message
saying that she got someone already....
and i told her everything and i wish her have a happy life with her new half....

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Added on April 27, 2008, 5:41 pmso sour hahahahahahhahaa

This post has been edited by yukikaze: Apr 27 2008, 05:41 PM

Not sure what's your story behind
But then I can feel you
Bro, stand up and face it, I am sure you can
Love is a feeling, no matter she loves you or not you will love her still
Love is not a trade nor business, not that how much you give in then how much you will get in return
Stay strong, be cool

goodbye cruel world...
































just kiddin
cymon got a point,no use looking at the back have to pick myself up

Why need a friend to help when you can one man show?