Life is sad. If u are a girl u have to be slim and try to be as pretty as possible. I learned it the hard way. There is a book that is entitled 'Fat girl life' or something along that lines that talks about the treatment guys give to girls.

A guy once told me that we are attracted to the opposite side. If a girl nearly looks like a guy (Big size, unclean, etc) then whats the point the guy go after that girl?