Well, I think you should social more or perhaps know more people. At least you got choice and other people also got chance to know you.

I met my gf through fren (where they match making / blind date me with another girl) and now it work out well. Dating for over a year now and she is 25 when i met her and she said she also never date before. (**That's what she told me). Besides, she is quite a pretty girl herself and the reason she said no bf because she always stay at home and work place no potential guys.

So, a blind date is not a bad idea.