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 What is my problems.... single for 25 years!

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feyhime
post Mar 31 2008, 10:32 AM

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The harder you search, the easier you'll miss a potential bf.

In another word, don't be too desperate and don't set your expectation too high.

There's no Mr. Right in this world. There's Mr Compatible.

Go out and socialise. Enjoy yourself, don't purposely search for someone. People will notice and that might freak people out or make you look desperate. Go with the flow. Be yourself, be more confident and let your personality shines. People will notice people who are comfortable with themselves more that those are shy or is trying too hard.
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post Apr 2 2008, 12:26 PM

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QUOTE(*devilelle* @ Apr 2 2008, 12:14 PM)
should enjoy your time while you are single... appreciate it cuz when you are being occupied, gosh...you know hows it feel when you have to report your position all the time to your bf.... doh.gif  doh.gif  doh.gif
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That will only happens if you choose to let it happen. wink.gif
Having a bf does not automatically means you will loose your personal time.
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post Apr 2 2008, 02:21 PM

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QUOTE(*devilelle* @ Apr 2 2008, 02:16 PM)
i feel like im in jail....
i don like it and when i don tell him where am i....
i don want to tell whats goin on with him
but after few years, he told me that we start off the relationship wrongly....
gosh.... doh.gif  doh.gif  doh.gif
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awww *hugs*

By right one should not feel overly restricted when you are in a relationship. If it starts to feel that way, then something is obviously not right and it's time to re-evaluate.

But we are going out of topic XD
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post Apr 2 2008, 04:19 PM

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QUOTE(MyKy44 @ Apr 2 2008, 04:17 PM)
hmm.gif Well there're girls who demands wants the bf to report to her every minute of the day also wat, not restricted to guys nia.

Stay single and adopt a pet! If lonely or need a chat can always go online laugh.gif.
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And likewise you can always says No yawn.gif

Like I mentioned earlier, it's your choice to make.
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post Apr 2 2008, 04:49 PM

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QUOTE(MyKy44 @ Apr 2 2008, 04:26 PM)
But like how? By refusing to report directly? I've never had such experience so i dunno.
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There's something call communication. If you do not like losing your personal space, you should talk to your partner and let them understand your points and you their. wink.gif
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post Apr 2 2008, 05:14 PM

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QUOTE(*devilelle* @ Apr 2 2008, 05:09 PM)
lols, why don guys try to put themselve in girls shoes .... is more than controlling you know... sure you want some privacy on your own....
sometimes, guy just wont understand what girl try to express... communication breakdown...
but will try next time.......
is that safe????
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Well I believe it happens to both male and female partners laugh.gif

Communication breakdown isn't a problem with only one party. Both play a roles. If it happens, then you are either not talking enough or you don't talk well with each other.
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post Apr 2 2008, 05:36 PM

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QUOTE(MyKy44 @ Apr 2 2008, 05:17 PM)
Itu la pasal... it's a known fact that guys s*ck big time when it comes to communication. Haha.
Practice? It'll work maybe.
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QUOTE(*devilelle* @ Apr 2 2008, 05:17 PM)
cant judge the book by its cover..........
some guys are just stubborn and don understand girls... i mean they are quite ok after you told them but then after a while the same old habit back again....
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And I can tell you some girls are equally as stubborn and bring you through one whole garden just to get her point across.

The point is that when you are in a relationship, it doesn't matter which gender you are when it comes to communication. It's only effective when you get to convey your message across properly and that you will actually do something to mend it if it's broken.

However, if nothing change even if you have talked about it countless time, then why, ask yourself, are you still in the relationship if it's so hard to make it work.

Cheers wink.gif

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