what is wrong with the flash? Nothing difficult to use right?

First, while already in shooting mode, press * so that the flash will on. Then press the shuttle half way to focus, then when you hear the sound "titit", then meaning already focus, then press the shuttle fully. But, one thing to remember, after press the shuttle fully, it is advise don move your camera for 1sec..

LOL.. haha.. so sorry cause I am into camera thingy recently..

Ok, talking about flashing SE, i think it have step by step online flashing in their official website. I done once or twice before. Even if you screw the flashing progress up, then they have Recovery flashing also..