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chilicandy
post Mar 28 2008, 01:06 PM

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QUOTE(Peppy @ Mar 28 2008, 12:22 PM)
One and a half year ago, A broke up with her Ex, they had sex when they were in a relationship, untill the next relationship for A only happened for not long which is known as B.

B was betrayed by his ex and hurt deeply.B told A 3 conditions for their relationship:
1st - Never lie to me
2nd - Never betray me
3rd - Never make him cry, else he will hate A very much.

Actually A personally kind of regret for had sex with her Ex, she worried how her next bf going to judge her, untill a senior of her thought her by lie to the her next BF that she is still a virgin, because after for not having sex for a long time of period, gal's virgina part will bcome tight again.

Eventually A had sex with B, B ask A, is this her 1st time having sex? A actually lie and cheated B that she were, besides oral sex shes still a virgin. B also didn't realize of anything.

This is just the beginning of thier relationship, and A already lie to B which cant fullfill one of his condition... A feel guilt and feel bad to B.. Shall A be honest to B or keep it as a secret forever by treat him much more better to mend her mistake?

Opinion plz...
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Actually i finds B preset condition is kind of too rigid for love. Shouldn't love be unconditional ? and true loves learns to forgive to goes on.
anyway, back to topic, since A already made that statement, she better stick to her word till death lor...
never ever suddenly goes back and admit that she lied.

Since she had an ex before B, i wonder why A takes the trouble to lie ? If B loves A enough, he should understand A more.

Lie and betray should be in a sense that guys don't like their gf takes them for a coo coo ride.
chilicandy
post Mar 28 2008, 08:58 PM

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QUOTE(Peppy @ Mar 28 2008, 12:44 PM)
Lets make things easier, A actually love her ex very much, they break up because of violence abuse.

Things become serious when her ex beat her up till bleed, so A decide to leave her ex, cause she deserve a better one.

Before they break up her Ex said he will wait for A no matter when and how is it. At the same time her Ex warn her and threaten her that one day later he will get her back and during that period she cant have sex with others cause she is belong to him. Untill today A's ex still keep on contact A. Thats what A worried about because A hope to stay long with B as she feel that this is the right one for her  sad.gif
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Better stay away from the ex as far away as possible.
There are cases of some insane guy who will stalks their ex gf.


chilicandy
post Apr 7 2008, 02:13 PM

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QUOTE(Peppy @ Apr 7 2008, 11:47 AM)
biggrin.gif  Released ad, feel so good. At least I dun need to hide it so badly just afraid that he might sense something.
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good for you then. Now just waiting for his temper to cools down ?
chilicandy
post Apr 7 2008, 03:41 PM

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QUOTE(Peppy @ Apr 7 2008, 02:30 PM)
Hmm.. I am too sensitive. Ever since that moment I confessed I think he already forgive me, he just want me to know the truth. At least morning before I leave he still give me a hug and ask me to becareful as usual. Now I feel so happy  blush.gif
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i'm glad for you, as things seems to turns out well.
Just make sure you don't repeat the same mistake again in the future, for he will think you never take it seriously. biggrin.gif

I'm glad for you now that you can have better sleep now. As about your ex problems, you need to tell him that he has been harassing you as well. At least, he knows what you have been going through. wink.gif

 

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