Yes khoo011..same opinion..
huhu...

ya...

"10 cups is not enough cover 11 eggs"

do remember the chinese folks said

Yea.. I did share with a friend of mine, one which can be trusted. Scolded by my frenz for nt asking the opinion before my lie.. The frenz of mine know my situation as well, things which happened between me and my ex, so if there is anything happen on me, and my current BF - B leave me just because of the lie, at least there is still a friend who will always stand by my side.


It seems tht from you and ricky case, both of you forgiven your gf, why not I give out a try, your forgiveness to ur gf is an encouragement for me to confess, so I know what shall I do. TQ

come clean..

don't wait until both are in stable relationship, almost getting married or later only she confess.. that time.. how the bf is gonna trust her the fact that she lied to him all this while??

No No No, Will get things settle ASAP

good decision....tell us whats the end of story..hehehe

IMO, the conditions set is so rigid la. Come on la love is all about acceptance and understanding. If tht dude refuse to accept u for who u are and your past, to hell with him and screw him.

Sorry if my opinion overlaps. Didn't read thru all here, been reading alot alot

What is the result? Things just happen 3 hours ago, he cant really take it and pissed off for being lied by me. Now wait till he is calm, dan only decide ba

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Added on April 7, 2008, 9:31 amHmm.. I'm forgiven. At least I got no burden with him for the coming days. I really like him... Hope for the best and thanl you people for d advice

This post has been edited by Peppy: Apr 7 2008, 09:31 AM

yaaa...heppy for U..nah..as i said..
u feel much better rite??

Released ad, feel so good. At least I dun need to hide it so badly just afraid that he might sense something.

good for you then. Now just waiting for his temper to cools down ?

Hmm.. I am too sensitive. Ever since that moment I confessed I think he already forgive me, he just want to know the truth. At least morning before I leave he still give me a hug and ask me to becareful as usual. Now I feel so happy

This post has been edited by Peppy: Apr 7 2008, 03:48 PM

i'm glad for you, as things seems to turns out well.
Just make sure you don't repeat the same mistake again in the future, for he will think you never take it seriously.

I'm glad for you now that you can have better sleep now. As about your ex problems, you need to tell him that he has been harassing you as well. At least, he knows what you have been going through.

Will do.. Anyway thnx for every advice over here. So I can clear my doubt and knot now.

Still got long way to go through

Shall close the topic d

good to hear that..

Hi... Dude over here... For me... Just keep on lying... But for something i cant understand... Why some guy is so big about virginity? The dude goes all around partying and he expect his gf to be virgin? Thats utterly pathetic and sick... Still girls need to tell their guy their a virgin... Well to quote what american pie said... Longer a girl holds her virginity the more pure and decent she will become, the longer a guy holds his virginity the more retarded he will become... Ponder about it...

>>forsworn: ek... she got her solution ady. Problem solved.

ya lor....solved edi...
feel LEGA edi..

after go through A's story, i understand that there are alot dilemmas in btw...
A doesn't wans B to have any kinda negative thought of her,so she choose to lie...it is start from a good point where A actually wants their relationship appear in a better form(i mean a relationship without any black point,who knows the guys would think have had sex before is kinda betrayed?)
n now A worry about the lie will be revealed due to EX...

if i were A, i would choose to tell the truth, but of coz the timing and all the script hav to be prepared in advanced...im sure B will undestand one...

ask yourself if you want someone you love to 'lie' to you should it be black or white lies?

to my point of view... you shoudnt have lie to him about this. No one bother much about virgin or not at nowadays. the most important is she must be honest, loyal and good hearted. Since you have choosen to lie... it is much better to let it be since he did not notice about it... but of course u need to prepare yourself if anything would happen that he might know it from someone else.. then u would probably loose everything... If i were you... i rather tell him the truth than later. at least you guys are still in the beginning stage it wont hurt tat much if he ask for a break... cant blame him much cos... someone lied to him before ...which makes him upset till now.