Mar 28 2008, 12:49 AM
QUOTE(xiin @ Mar 27 2008, 10:06 PM)
I'm currently facing relationship problems & i would like to know all your oppinions/thoughts/advice.
Lets name this person "mickey". lol
A while ago i was with another person & was facing REAL problems, mickey was there to advice, to cheer me up. Basically mickey was there for me during those hard times. However that relationship didnt work out & i was really upset & depressed. That was when i fell for mickey.
I realised mickey was much better than that person. We share thoughts, talk about almost everything for the whole day in school & IM. I could feel that mickey has feelings for me but then i was not ready for another relationship but then i had feelings for mickey.
We talked, talked, talked & talked for quite a while & then soon we told each other that we had feelings for each other. We liked each other for almost 5 months, only then we got together. For once in my life, this was the relationship that i was pretty sure it would last for a long time cause our relationship is just too "close" & i was happy about it.
Everything was going out great until recently, for the past 2 months, ever since mickey became the school team basketball captain, mickey changed. mickey didnt have time for me, mickey didnt even have time to talk to me & spend time with me. I was really upset. mickey became so carried away with after school cocuriculums. IMO, thats the reason why mickey changed.
But mickey doesnt want people to know about our relationship. mickey tries so hard to keep it a secret until we cant even talk in school cause mickey is afraid people will find out & tease us. We used to chat on IM, & our chat logs will be 5mb-8mb in plain .txt format but in these 2 months it has been 1mb-2mb. Now you know how much less we talk?...
My friend tells me, what is the point of being with the person if the person is not willing to let people know about our relationship. I agree, but i love mickey too much to break up.
I just feel we're are slowly drifting away. I dont think mickey feels the same like I do. I cant explain why, its just instincts.
If you were in a situation like this, what will you do other than having a talk to the person about my problems. mickey got me so
until i dont dare to talk about this.
Lets name this person "mickey". lol
A while ago i was with another person & was facing REAL problems, mickey was there to advice, to cheer me up. Basically mickey was there for me during those hard times. However that relationship didnt work out & i was really upset & depressed. That was when i fell for mickey.
I realised mickey was much better than that person. We share thoughts, talk about almost everything for the whole day in school & IM. I could feel that mickey has feelings for me but then i was not ready for another relationship but then i had feelings for mickey.
We talked, talked, talked & talked for quite a while & then soon we told each other that we had feelings for each other. We liked each other for almost 5 months, only then we got together. For once in my life, this was the relationship that i was pretty sure it would last for a long time cause our relationship is just too "close" & i was happy about it.
Everything was going out great until recently, for the past 2 months, ever since mickey became the school team basketball captain, mickey changed. mickey didnt have time for me, mickey didnt even have time to talk to me & spend time with me. I was really upset. mickey became so carried away with after school cocuriculums. IMO, thats the reason why mickey changed.
But mickey doesnt want people to know about our relationship. mickey tries so hard to keep it a secret until we cant even talk in school cause mickey is afraid people will find out & tease us. We used to chat on IM, & our chat logs will be 5mb-8mb in plain .txt format but in these 2 months it has been 1mb-2mb. Now you know how much less we talk?...
My friend tells me, what is the point of being with the person if the person is not willing to let people know about our relationship. I agree, but i love mickey too much to break up.
I just feel we're are slowly drifting away. I dont think mickey feels the same like I do. I cant explain why, its just instincts.
If you were in a situation like this, what will you do other than having a talk to the person about my problems. mickey got me so
until i dont dare to talk about this.QUOTE(xiin @ Mar 27 2008, 10:40 PM)
yea. wan keep my identity anonymous. lols.
Added on March 27, 2008, 10:42 pm
my defination of "changed" is not because of that. mickey mouse doesnt really open up & share thoughts with me. like telling me his problems in life or stuff like that. mickey wanna keep it a secret because she dont wanna get teased, & dont want her parents to know. that is why i agreed to keep it a secret. only our close friends knows abt it.
i hope what i see on the latter post is just some grammar errors ? He or She ?Added on March 27, 2008, 10:42 pm
my defination of "changed" is not because of that. mickey mouse doesnt really open up & share thoughts with me. like telling me his problems in life or stuff like that. mickey wanna keep it a secret because she dont wanna get teased, & dont want her parents to know. that is why i agreed to keep it a secret. only our close friends knows abt it.
anyway, there are those beginner in love relationship that doesn't like to share their love with the whole wide world.
Yes, there are people who are bashful in nature, and shy to admit their love for another in front of the damn world.
Mickey has got a new sport, and Mickey is elected as the school captain. so, judging from the position Mickey attains, of course Mickey would spend more time on the sport.
Aside from that, probably after the 5 months of close chatting, things do get a bit slowed down. Don't expect everything to be still the same or as passionate and sweet when it first got started.
As long as Mickey still loves you, why don't you give Mickey some space for his/her own sports ?
You should consider some new hobby as well. If one partner is too attached to the other, it could be too suffocating to the other partner, which is not a good thing.
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