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post Mar 27 2008, 10:06 PM, updated 18y ago

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post Mar 27 2008, 10:23 PM

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have a talk with micky mouse..start with "y u like dis?"


Added on March 27, 2008, 10:24 pmbtw u create a new user just for this rite?? tongue.gif

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post Mar 27 2008, 10:24 PM

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I think its either now or latter that you have to deal with situations like esp if you want to have a long lasting relationship with mickey mouse laugh.gif sorry it just sounds like it. This is what happens when you 2 graduate from high school or when you 2 are working or having a long distance relationship try to talk to him about it. Some times I feel in a relationship both partners need to have breathing space.
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i think you just let go and be flexible about it....let him do his basketball stuff first, dont pressure him to have time with you, but let him decide to have time later with you.
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post Mar 27 2008, 10:29 PM

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I think thread starter(TS) is too attached to her bf, maybe this is a good time to give each other some space while TS finds her own hobby and interests it makes the relationship healthier that way imho, but at the same time be on guard for other rivals. Try to ask him to make time for u during his free time and stuff.
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post Mar 27 2008, 10:32 PM

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1st of all, one should never tell all your god damm pak tor-ing story with another person of different sex (male-female and terbalik)
U would actually think he/she was so good and understand u and know wat u thinking, infact it was u who told everything to him/her.

But anyway let get back to the main point.

U are stupid becoz u say he changed, he was busy with something important (business always 1st in guy's mind) and u upset for that? Grow up girl.
Its not like he cheating on u.
If u are too god damn free nothing to do, get something to do like studying (i bet u are no older than 15 years old) or do something good.

But i can assure u, something is wrong if he want to keep this relationship a secret.
Eiher u are fugly or he trying to court another girl.

I suggest u get over with "he has no time for me" but instead u should stalk him, i believe he was not that busy with basketball or watever he playing.
He might buaya-ing another girl.
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post Mar 27 2008, 10:40 PM

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agree with u wacky angel, but since u said she is not more than 15yo, i can understand y mickey doesnt 1 2 let others know about their relationship. this is wat i did when i was in high school. if u get rumours like this, 'windsss' will blow it into mum/dad's ears...then will be in big trouble. (my opinion lar...)
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QUOTE(lightonokira @ Mar 27 2008, 10:23 PM)
have a talk with micky mouse..start with "y u like dis?"


Added on March 27, 2008, 10:24 pmbtw u create a new user just for this rite?? tongue.gif
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yea. wan keep my identity anonymous. lols.


Added on March 27, 2008, 10:42 pm
QUOTE(WaCKy-Angel @ Mar 27 2008, 10:32 PM)
1st of all, one should never tell all your god damm pak tor-ing story with another person of different sex (male-female and terbalik)
U would actually think he/she was so good and understand u and know wat u thinking, infact it was u who told everything to him/her.

But anyway let get back to the main point.

U are stupid becoz u say he changed, he was busy with something important (business always 1st in guy's mind) and u upset for that? Grow up girl.
Its not like he cheating on u.
If u are too god damn free nothing to do, get something to do like studying (i bet u are no older than 15 years old) or do something good.

But i can assure u, something is wrong if he want to keep this relationship a secret.
Eiher u are fugly or he trying to court another girl.

I suggest u get over with "he has no time for me" but instead u should stalk him, i believe he was not that busy with basketball or watever he playing.
He might buaya-ing another girl.
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my defination of "changed" is not because of that. mickey mouse doesnt really open up & share thoughts with me. like telling me his problems in life or stuff like that. mickey wanna keep it a secret because she dont wanna get teased, & dont want her parents to know. that is why i agreed to keep it a secret. only our close friends knows abt it.

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post Mar 27 2008, 10:44 PM

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QUOTE(xiin @ Mar 27 2008, 10:40 PM)
yea. wan keep my identity anonymous. lols.
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see...you oso don want others to know about the relationship..so don blame your bf lar... tongue.gif
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QUOTE(pumpkinn @ Mar 27 2008, 10:40 PM)
agree with u wacky angel, but since u said she is not more than 15yo, i can understand y mickey doesnt 1 2 let others know about their relationship. this is wat i did when i was in high school. if u get rumours like this, 'windsss' will blow it into mum/dad's ears...then will be in big trouble. (my opinion lar...)
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agreed. but i dont think "in sch rumours" will fly to parents ears. never came across it before.


Added on March 27, 2008, 10:45 pm
QUOTE(pumpkinn @ Mar 27 2008, 10:44 PM)
see...you oso don want others to know about the relationship..so don blame your bf lar... tongue.gif
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post Mar 27 2008, 10:48 PM

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QUOTE(xiin @ Mar 27 2008, 10:06 PM)
I'm currently facing relationship problems & i would like to know all your oppinions/thoughts/advice.
Lets name this person "mickey". lol

A while ago i was with another person & was facing REAL problems, mickey was there to advice, to cheer me up. Basically mickey was there for me during those hard times. However that relationship didnt work out & i was really upset & depressed. That was when i fell for mickey.

I realised mickey was much better than that person. We share thoughts, talk about almost everything for the whole day in school & IM. I could feel that mickey has feelings for me but then i was not ready for another relationship but then i had feelings for mickey.

We talked, talked, talked & talked for quite a while & then soon we told each other that we had feelings for each other. We liked each other for almost 5 months, only then we got together. For once in my life, this was the relationship that i was pretty sure it would last for a long time cause our relationship is just too "close" & i was happy about it.

Everything was going out great until recently, for the past 2 months, ever since mickey became the school team basketball captain, mickey changed. mickey didnt have time for me, mickey didnt even have time to talk to me & spend time with me. I was really upset. mickey became so carried away with after school cocuriculums. IMO, thats the reason why mickey changed.

But mickey doesnt want people to know about our relationship. mickey tries so hard to keep it a secret until we cant even talk in school cause mickey is afraid people will find out & tease us. We used to chat on IM, & our chat logs will be 5mb-8mb in plain .txt format but in these 2 months it has been 1mb-2mb. Now you know how much less we talk?...

My friend tells me, what is the point of being with the person if the person is not willing to let people know about our relationship. I agree, but i love mickey too much to break up.

I just feel we're are slowly drifting away. I dont think mickey feels the same like I do. I cant explain why, its just instincts.
If you were in a situation like this, what will you do other than having a talk to the person about my problems. mickey got me so  sad.gif  until i dont dare to talk about this.
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If i am not mistaken, u must be still studying in school...

I guess u better cool down and study first.......

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post Mar 27 2008, 10:48 PM

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[quote=xiin,Mar 27 2008, 10:44 PM]
agreed. but i dont think "in sch rumours" will fly to parents ears. never came across it before.

i stayed in a small town. so if i have a bf...my mum will know in the next hour tongue.gif tongue.gif
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post Mar 27 2008, 10:55 PM

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[quote=xiin,Mar 27 2008, 10:40 PM]
yea. wan keep my identity anonymous. lols.


Added on March 27, 2008, 10:42 pm

my defination of "changed" is not because of that. mickey mouse doesnt really open up & share thoughts with me. like telling me his problems in life or stuff like that. mickey wanna keep it a secret because she dont wanna get teased, & dont want her parents to know. that is why i agreed to keep it a secret. only our close friends knows abt it.
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ph34r.gif ph34r.gif Shemale spoted. Thats why new account holders with a female tags are always questionable.

[quote=pumpkinn,Mar 27 2008, 10:48 PM]
[quote=xiin,Mar 27 2008, 10:44 PM]
agreed. but i dont think "in sch rumours" will fly to parents ears. never came across it before.

i stayed in a small town. so if i have a bf...my mum will know in the next hour tongue.gif tongue.gif
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Agree with that .


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post Mar 27 2008, 11:03 PM

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duh are u a guy or a girl?

If parents dont allow then dont pak tor lar.
U wont die without pak tor-ing, nor u wont get good ending for pak tor-ing at such young age..
Silap haribulan, happy father's/mother's day.

But anyway, i dont think a guy's parents will disallow their son to pak tor, nothing to lose also.
So i see no reason why a guy should hide the secret.
And why care other laugh at u?
If my gf is fcuking hawt i will use microphone to tell everyone, unless my gf is uber fugly
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but will affect studies mar...even though got nothing to lose...my bro oso not allowed to pak tuo tongue.gif
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i think mickey is after another girl... using you as spare part.


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post Mar 27 2008, 11:11 PM

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QUOTE(pumpkinn @ Mar 27 2008, 11:07 PM)
but will affect studies mar...even though got nothing to lose...my bro oso not allowed to pak tuo tongue.gif
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And u opening thread complaining ur bf not good performance on bed? doh.gif doh.gif doh.gif doh.gif
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y r u kacau-ing in ppl thread? ish...don pull my thread into here...i m allowed to pak tuo lar...
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QUOTE(pumpkinn @ Mar 27 2008, 11:15 PM)
y r u kacau-ing in ppl thread? ish...don pull my thread into here...i m allowed to pak tuo lar...
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huh u said bro dun allow ?

maybe i can satisfy ur desires? lol jk jk

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duh.....lemme buy u a spec biggrin.gif
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QUOTE(pumpkinn @ Mar 27 2008, 11:20 PM)
duh.....lemme buy u a spec biggrin.gif
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post Mar 27 2008, 11:49 PM

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reason is from the previous post...joking lar...as u didnt read my post properly...
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QUOTE(pumpkinn @ Mar 27 2008, 11:49 PM)
reason is from the previous post...joking lar...as u didnt read my post properly...
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oh sorry i get it now..


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post Mar 28 2008, 12:49 AM

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QUOTE(xiin @ Mar 27 2008, 10:06 PM)
I'm currently facing relationship problems & i would like to know all your oppinions/thoughts/advice.
Lets name this person "mickey". lol

A while ago i was with another person & was facing REAL problems, mickey was there to advice, to cheer me up. Basically mickey was there for me during those hard times. However that relationship didnt work out & i was really upset & depressed. That was when i fell for mickey.

I realised mickey was much better than that person. We share thoughts, talk about almost everything for the whole day in school & IM. I could feel that mickey has feelings for me but then i was not ready for another relationship but then i had feelings for mickey.

We talked, talked, talked & talked for quite a while & then soon we told each other that we had feelings for each other. We liked each other for almost 5 months, only then we got together. For once in my life, this was the relationship that i was pretty sure it would last for a long time cause our relationship is just too "close" & i was happy about it.

Everything was going out great until recently, for the past 2 months, ever since mickey became the school team basketball captain, mickey changed. mickey didnt have time for me, mickey didnt even have time to talk to me & spend time with me. I was really upset. mickey became so carried away with after school cocuriculums. IMO, thats the reason why mickey changed.

But mickey doesnt want people to know about our relationship. mickey tries so hard to keep it a secret until we cant even talk in school cause mickey is afraid people will find out & tease us. We used to chat on IM, & our chat logs will be 5mb-8mb in plain .txt format but in these 2 months it has been 1mb-2mb. Now you know how much less we talk?...

My friend tells me, what is the point of being with the person if the person is not willing to let people know about our relationship. I agree, but i love mickey too much to break up.

I just feel we're are slowly drifting away. I dont think mickey feels the same like I do. I cant explain why, its just instincts.
If you were in a situation like this, what will you do other than having a talk to the person about my problems. mickey got me so  sad.gif  until i dont dare to talk about this.
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QUOTE(xiin @ Mar 27 2008, 10:40 PM)
yea. wan keep my identity anonymous. lols.


Added on March 27, 2008, 10:42 pm

my defination of "changed" is not because of that. mickey mouse doesnt really open up & share thoughts with me. like telling me his problems in life or stuff like that. mickey wanna keep it a secret because she dont wanna get teased, & dont want her parents to know. that is why i agreed to keep it a secret. only our close friends knows abt it.
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i hope what i see on the latter post is just some grammar errors ? He or She ?

anyway, there are those beginner in love relationship that doesn't like to share their love with the whole wide world.
Yes, there are people who are bashful in nature, and shy to admit their love for another in front of the damn world.

Mickey has got a new sport, and Mickey is elected as the school captain. so, judging from the position Mickey attains, of course Mickey would spend more time on the sport.

Aside from that, probably after the 5 months of close chatting, things do get a bit slowed down. Don't expect everything to be still the same or as passionate and sweet when it first got started.

As long as Mickey still loves you, why don't you give Mickey some space for his/her own sports ?
You should consider some new hobby as well. If one partner is too attached to the other, it could be too suffocating to the other partner, which is not a good thing.
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WaCKy-Angel .. ur replied is always.... doh.gif doh.gif where is darklight la?? :sob:

hey TS, tbh, girl @ young age dun like to open relationship. maybe family issue, or u're jsut not good enuf smile.gif


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QUOTE(Gladys @ Mar 28 2008, 01:08 AM)
WaCKy-Angel .. ur replied is always.... doh.gif doh.gif  where is darklight la?? :sob:

hey TS, tbh, girl @ young age dun like to open relationship. maybe family issue, or u're jsut not good enuf smile.gif
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DarkLight missing jor....... Now Wacky angel is replacement.......

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"she"/"her" = spelling mistake in previous post. was too rushed typing. doh.gif


Added on March 28, 2008, 7:57 amSo your advice is to let it be for the time being & let mickey carry on with his sports? This is gonna last forever cause mickey is a very atlethic person, he join's one sport after another to get medals. This is gonna last half a year + end year exam. cry.gif

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then xiin, GO STUDY ! why wasting time wondering about him when he is so busy..

like tv said, Kids this day...
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QUOTE(Gladys @ Mar 28 2008, 01:08 AM)
WaCKy-Angel .. ur replied is always.... doh.gif doh.gif  where is darklight la?? :sob:

hey TS, tbh, girl @ young age dun like to open relationship. maybe family issue, or u're jsut not good enuf smile.gif
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My point is correct wat, just depends on where your point of view is.

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DarkLight missing jor....... Now Wacky angel is replacement.......

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As some suggested here, give him some space.

If other all his activities, and even after u talked to him, he still give no sh*t, hence the golden rule should be applied.

Screw him. Get over it. *Get a new one.

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Darling, either you join him in sport or you go study. Being together in a relationship doesn't mean that you have to spend 24/7 or whatever time you have together. You do have your life, and he his. I am sure you squeeze some time and visit him during practise or something? You can even chat and ask how's his sports doing and all. When you love someone, you try your best to overcome any barrier. If you force him away from sports, I am pretty sure he's going to hate you for it.
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It's not i dont let him do his sports. It's like when he is having his practice i cant even go & ask how are you doing? his friends are there >.<

During one occasion i got him something, everyone found out about us because of that, he left the "thing" in school for a week? then god knows what happen to it. Then he started blaming me like saying "because of you now everyone knows & they r teasing me".. he wasnt like that last time.

Lets not touch on studies k..
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QUOTE(xiin @ Mar 28 2008, 10:22 AM)
It's not i dont let him do his sports. It's like when he is having his practice i cant even go & ask how are you doing? his friends are there >.<

During one occasion i got him something, everyone found out about us because of that, he left the "thing" in school for a week? then god knows what happen to it. Then he started blaming me like saying "because of you now everyone knows & they r teasing me".. he wasnt like that last time.

Lets not touch on studies k..
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Im serious about what im going to say.

Show me your pic, then i might know why ur bf doesnt ppl want to know about u.
U can PM me your friendster link or something, i wont tell anymore, nor im interested to buaya u.
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>>Wacky-angel: huh? Why need pic lak?

Anyhow, i think just screw that guy la. Would u wanna be with a guy who's so lousy he can't even take teasings from his friends? Wat a pathetic guy. And he blames u some more! wtf man
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QUOTE(xiin @ Mar 28 2008, 07:55 AM)
"she"/"her" = spelling mistake in previous post. was too rushed typing. doh.gif


Added on March 28, 2008, 7:57 amSo your advice is to let it be for the time being & let mickey carry on with his sports? This is gonna last forever cause mickey is a very atlethic person, he join's one sport after another to get medals. This is gonna last half a year + end year exam.  cry.gif
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Then during his basket ball break time you bring water tower kisses hugs to him lor his team mates will definately be very jealous that he has a girl like you, and he will appreciate you more.
Try and see;)

QUOTE(WaCKy-Angel @ Mar 28 2008, 10:27 AM)
Im serious about what im going to say.

Show me your pic, then i might know why ur bf doesnt ppl want to know about u.
U can PM me your friendster link or something, i wont tell anymore, nor im very interested into to buayaing u.
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QUOTE(WaCKy-Angel @ Mar 28 2008, 10:27 AM)
Im serious about what im going to say.

Show me your pic, then i might know why ur bf doesnt ppl want to know about u.
U can PM me your friendster link or something, i wont tell anymore, nor im interested to buaya u.
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honestly saying.. im not that ugly, im not that pretty, i have everything a girl has. lol
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QUOTE(xiin @ Mar 28 2008, 10:22 AM)
It's not i dont let him do his sports. It's like when he is having his practice i cant even go & ask how are you doing? his friends are there >.<

During one occasion i got him something, everyone found out about us because of that, he left the "thing" in school for a week? then god knows what happen to it. Then he started blaming me like saying "because of you now everyone knows & they r teasing me".. he wasnt like that last time.

Lets not touch on studies k..
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sounds like your guy is a very reserved kind of person.
Probably you need to let him know your feeling. Tell him that you don't enjoy hiding your relationship, and tell him your insecurity.

sometimes, two person needs to talk face to face what's in their mind.

Maybe you can take on haruko's role in Slam Dunk, supporting him in the sideline.. biggrin.gif
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girl, communicate with him well.
Tell him how you feel, talk to him properly and dun get emotional first.
Hiding a relationship is not good at all. Suffering leh.. blink.gif
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is he 2-timing you???
or is there any possible reasons for a guy not willing to admit their gf in public??
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Probably he just shy, whats big deal about it? If this problem can cause u break up den in the future there is more simple thing can cause u to break up with other ppl, except that he deny to be ur bf when ppl found it out.

Every1 got their to busy with, except that he ignore u whenever u try to ask her out or just wan to have a little talk. U should give hom some space as well as giving urself too, find something good to learn and dun think of he can spent time with u whenever u need him.
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ask him y he wants to keep the relatonship a secret instead or letting it know to others.
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he is just liking u, and not ready for a real relationship i think, both u are still young and of course he wants to knw more girls . this is his reason not to "officially" present it

 

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