QUOTE(pumpkinn @ Mar 27 2008, 11:20 PM)
duh.....lemme buy u a spec 
what for?Closed
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 Mar 27 2008, 11:35 PM
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Mar 27 2008, 11:49 PM
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reason is from the previous post...joking lar...as u didnt read my post properly...
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Mar 27 2008, 11:50 PM
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QUOTE(pumpkinn @ Mar 27 2008, 11:49 PM) reason is from the previous post...joking lar...as u didnt read my post properly... oh sorry i get it now.. |
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Mar 28 2008, 12:49 AM
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QUOTE(xiin @ Mar 27 2008, 10:06 PM) I'm currently facing relationship problems & i would like to know all your oppinions/thoughts/advice. Lets name this person "mickey". lol A while ago i was with another person & was facing REAL problems, mickey was there to advice, to cheer me up. Basically mickey was there for me during those hard times. However that relationship didnt work out & i was really upset & depressed. That was when i fell for mickey. I realised mickey was much better than that person. We share thoughts, talk about almost everything for the whole day in school & IM. I could feel that mickey has feelings for me but then i was not ready for another relationship but then i had feelings for mickey. We talked, talked, talked & talked for quite a while & then soon we told each other that we had feelings for each other. We liked each other for almost 5 months, only then we got together. For once in my life, this was the relationship that i was pretty sure it would last for a long time cause our relationship is just too "close" & i was happy about it. Everything was going out great until recently, for the past 2 months, ever since mickey became the school team basketball captain, mickey changed. mickey didnt have time for me, mickey didnt even have time to talk to me & spend time with me. I was really upset. mickey became so carried away with after school cocuriculums. IMO, thats the reason why mickey changed. But mickey doesnt want people to know about our relationship. mickey tries so hard to keep it a secret until we cant even talk in school cause mickey is afraid people will find out & tease us. We used to chat on IM, & our chat logs will be 5mb-8mb in plain .txt format but in these 2 months it has been 1mb-2mb. Now you know how much less we talk?... My friend tells me, what is the point of being with the person if the person is not willing to let people know about our relationship. I agree, but i love mickey too much to break up. I just feel we're are slowly drifting away. I dont think mickey feels the same like I do. I cant explain why, its just instincts. If you were in a situation like this, what will you do other than having a talk to the person about my problems. mickey got me so  until i dont dare to talk about this.QUOTE(xiin @ Mar 27 2008, 10:40 PM) yea. wan keep my identity anonymous. lols. i hope what i see on the latter post is just some grammar errors ? He or She ?Added on March 27, 2008, 10:42 pm my defination of "changed" is not because of that. mickey mouse doesnt really open up & share thoughts with me. like telling me his problems in life or stuff like that. mickey wanna keep it a secret because she dont wanna get teased, & dont want her parents to know. that is why i agreed to keep it a secret. only our close friends knows abt it. anyway, there are those beginner in love relationship that doesn't like to share their love with the whole wide world. Yes, there are people who are bashful in nature, and shy to admit their love for another in front of the damn world. Mickey has got a new sport, and Mickey is elected as the school captain. so, judging from the position Mickey attains, of course Mickey would spend more time on the sport. Aside from that, probably after the 5 months of close chatting, things do get a bit slowed down. Don't expect everything to be still the same or as passionate and sweet when it first got started. As long as Mickey still loves you, why don't you give Mickey some space for his/her own sports ? You should consider some new hobby as well. If one partner is too attached to the other, it could be too suffocating to the other partner, which is not a good thing. |
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Mar 28 2008, 01:08 AM
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WaCKy-Angel .. ur replied is always....
 where is darklight la?? :sob:hey TS, tbh, girl @ young age dun like to open relationship. maybe family issue, or u're jsut not good enuf  |
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Mar 28 2008, 02:13 AM
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QUOTE(Gladys @ Mar 28 2008, 01:08 AM) WaCKy-Angel .. ur replied is always.... DarkLight missing jor....... Now Wacky angel is replacement....... where is darklight la?? :sob:hey TS, tbh, girl @ young age dun like to open relationship. maybe family issue, or u're jsut not good enuf  |
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Mar 28 2008, 07:55 AM
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"she"/"her" = spelling mistake in previous post. was too rushed typing.
Added on March 28, 2008, 7:57 amSo your advice is to let it be for the time being & let mickey carry on with his sports? This is gonna last forever cause mickey is a very atlethic person, he join's one sport after another to get medals. This is gonna last half a year + end year exam.  This post has been edited by xiin: Mar 28 2008, 07:57 AM |
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Mar 28 2008, 08:00 AM
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then xiin, GO STUDY ! why wasting time wondering about him when he is so busy..
like tv said, Kids this day... |
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Mar 28 2008, 09:08 AM
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QUOTE(Gladys @ Mar 28 2008, 01:08 AM) WaCKy-Angel .. ur replied is always.... What does where is darklight la?? :sob:hey TS, tbh, girl @ young age dun like to open relationship. maybe family issue, or u're jsut not good enuf means?My point is correct wat, just depends on where your point of view is. QUOTE(wangpr @ Mar 28 2008, 02:13 AM) DarkLight missing jor....... Now Wacky angel is replacement....... We're buddy buddy mah he come i go, i come he go lol |
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Mar 28 2008, 09:53 AM
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As some suggested here, give him some space.
If other all his activities, and even after u talked to him, he still give no sh*t, hence the golden rule should be applied. Screw him. Get over it. *Get a new one. *if u're studying, then Study! |
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Mar 28 2008, 10:06 AM
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Darling, either you join him in sport or you go study. Being together in a relationship doesn't mean that you have to spend 24/7 or whatever time you have together. You do have your life, and he his. I am sure you squeeze some time and visit him during practise or something? You can even chat and ask how's his sports doing and all. When you love someone, you try your best to overcome any barrier. If you force him away from sports, I am pretty sure he's going to hate you for it.
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Mar 28 2008, 10:22 AM
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It's not i dont let him do his sports. It's like when he is having his practice i cant even go & ask how are you doing? his friends are there >.<
During one occasion i got him something, everyone found out about us because of that, he left the "thing" in school for a week? then god knows what happen to it. Then he started blaming me like saying "because of you now everyone knows & they r teasing me".. he wasnt like that last time. Lets not touch on studies k.. |
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Mar 28 2008, 10:27 AM
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QUOTE(xiin @ Mar 28 2008, 10:22 AM) It's not i dont let him do his sports. It's like when he is having his practice i cant even go & ask how are you doing? his friends are there >.< Im serious about what im going to say.During one occasion i got him something, everyone found out about us because of that, he left the "thing" in school for a week? then god knows what happen to it. Then he started blaming me like saying "because of you now everyone knows & they r teasing me".. he wasnt like that last time. Lets not touch on studies k.. Show me your pic, then i might know why ur bf doesnt ppl want to know about u. U can PM me your friendster link or something, i wont tell anymore, nor im interested to buaya u. |
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Mar 28 2008, 10:31 AM
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>>Wacky-angel: huh? Why need pic lak?
Anyhow, i think just screw that guy la. Would u wanna be with a guy who's so lousy he can't even take teasings from his friends? Wat a pathetic guy. And he blames u some more! wtf man |
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Mar 28 2008, 10:45 AM
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QUOTE(xiin @ Mar 28 2008, 07:55 AM) "she"/"her" = spelling mistake in previous post. was too rushed typing. Then during his basket ball break time you bring water tower kisses hugs to him lor his team mates will definately be very jealous that he has a girl like you, and he will appreciate you more.Added on March 28, 2008, 7:57 amSo your advice is to let it be for the time being & let mickey carry on with his sports? This is gonna last forever cause mickey is a very atlethic person, he join's one sport after another to get medals. This is gonna last half a year + end year exam. Try and see;) QUOTE(WaCKy-Angel @ Mar 28 2008, 10:27 AM) Im serious about what im going to say. EditedShow me your pic, then i might know why ur bf doesnt ppl want to know about u. U can PM me your friendster link or something, i wont tell anymore, |
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 Mar 28 2008, 12:18 PM
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QUOTE(WaCKy-Angel @ Mar 28 2008, 10:27 AM) Im serious about what im going to say. honestly saying.. im not that ugly, im not that pretty, i have everything a girl has. lolShow me your pic, then i might know why ur bf doesnt ppl want to know about u. U can PM me your friendster link or something, i wont tell anymore, nor im interested to buaya u. |
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Mar 28 2008, 01:10 PM
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QUOTE(xiin @ Mar 28 2008, 10:22 AM) It's not i dont let him do his sports. It's like when he is having his practice i cant even go & ask how are you doing? his friends are there >.< sounds like your guy is a very reserved kind of person.During one occasion i got him something, everyone found out about us because of that, he left the "thing" in school for a week? then god knows what happen to it. Then he started blaming me like saying "because of you now everyone knows & they r teasing me".. he wasnt like that last time. Lets not touch on studies k.. Probably you need to let him know your feeling. Tell him that you don't enjoy hiding your relationship, and tell him your insecurity. sometimes, two person needs to talk face to face what's in their mind. Maybe you can take on haruko's role in Slam Dunk, supporting him in the sideline.. |
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Mar 28 2008, 01:18 PM
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girl, communicate with him well.
Tell him how you feel, talk to him properly and dun get emotional first. Hiding a relationship is not good at all. Suffering leh..  |
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Mar 31 2008, 09:24 AM
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is he 2-timing you???
or is there any possible reasons for a guy not willing to admit their gf in public?? |
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May 23 2008, 02:58 PM
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Probably he just shy, whats big deal about it? If this problem can cause u break up den in the future there is more simple thing can cause u to break up with other ppl, except that he deny to be ur bf when ppl found it out.
Every1 got their to busy with, except that he ignore u whenever u try to ask her out or just wan to have a little talk. U should give hom some space as well as giving urself too, find something good to learn and dun think of he can spent time with u whenever u need him. |
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