Heya HWH!
First off, I would like to reiterate that I am not here to start any arguments with you, and I take your post in good faith. I was just merely stating my views and so were you and thus there is neither any right or wrong. Just two different individuals with different purpose when playing the game. Furthermore, I'm way too tired - or maybe I've just grown up, hopefully - of trying to convince anyone to see things my way (yes, I was quite blinded back then when I was playing an officer's role within a hardcore guild - or probably semi hardcore compared to the top 10 guilds in the world - but hardcore nonetheless) ever since I quit the game sometime sept last year, that after clearing BT, due to personal reasons.
I admire your level of commitment to the game, especially when it comes to you leading your guild. I truely understand how hard it is to just make up your mind to quit the game and leave your guildmates to carry on without you. When playing a leading role, there is a certain level of responsibility one carries - yes, and thus we NEVER said that wow in a 'semi hardcore and hardcore' guild 'is just a game'. As a matter of fact, it's far from it and to be able to achieve that status would take a lot of self-sacrifice, be it time or lots of giving. However, in the end of the day, there are always fresh new blood to take over the 'old-wise' ones, and there are always people who would step up and retain the mantle of leadership.
I'm being frank and just to let you know, I very seldom add spice and sugar to my statements, for flattery is not my cup of tea. Thus, some of the questions that you posed, I have no answer to, for example the 3 or 4-camp, as I'm not exactly sure what those entail. Probably it's for the better seeing that I've quit the game afterall and also a testament to me not reading too many sites to 'copy' their ideas when it comes down to trying to 'adapt' - as you so bluntly pointed, but quite so true nevertheless - instead of 'strategise' our raid plans when it comes down to raiding. Neither am I going to answer some of which I could answer, for that would just lead to more unnecessary posts seeing that I detest drama - even more so when I'm in it.
I would just like to point out, in the end of the day, only the player himself will know his true worth. I myself will take pride in clearing the content tbc and pre-tbc - bar c'thun/viscidus (the only reset the guild killed C'thun was when I was away

) and Loatheb in Naxx onwards pre-tbc - before I quit, knowing full well that I played a significant role within my guild to make it happen, regardless of how many other tom,d*** or harry managed to acheive that feat, as I dont benchmark myself with others, but only the targets I personally set out. Gears alone MIGHT hint that the player managed to down a certain boss, but only he himself knows his contribution to downing that boss.
Afterall, what do I have now that I quit the game? Not epics, not gears. Only memories of the good-old-time of raiding, the gay-ish manner of shouting after downing a boss, the laughters we shared in gchat, the unforgettable 'oh shit moments', and the friendship we built - yes, I dare say friendship since I'm sure that should I ever visit their countries in europe, we could just meet up in a bar and remenisce. All these not influenced by whether a 'noob/nab/scrub or whatever you call them these days' managed to get the same gear as I.
P/S: Myremi, I think the later bit of his post was directed at me ;D