Alright, serious talk here.

The Girl's Club was setup for a purpose - to let the girls that hang around the forum have a place to go to to have their share of Ladies' Fellowship It's supposed to be a place where ladies can go to and discuss and all but apparently the section has gone down down down. Girl's Club is somewhat becoming Sex Central.

Now I'm opening this thread, I'd like to view constructive posts on how you ladies would like to see this place improved.

Currently, i see a lot of crap. a lot of the participants look like guys who are in for cheap thrills to add spice to their sexual fantasies.

Open for suggestions..... especially from the more senior (in terms of membership duration la! not age) ladies of LYN forum. As for guy feedbacks, yeah it'll be fine as long as it's constructive. And please, don't bother registering new accounts just and disguise as FEMALE just to participate. (I'll give the duplicate account a permanent ban while the original account a 3 day holiday if there be any).

not enough participation, so what? that doesn't mean guys should come in here and tear this place apart.

furthermore, i don't blame them for not participating either, especially when 101 other guys behave like hormonally-charged maniacs.

which is why i drop by from time to time. consider there's WAY more mess around other area, GC's problem is currently sick people, sick threads and sick urges. but they're not as pain as Kopitiam and Football Lounge.

anyway, the point of this thread is to get a general feedback from the participants to help the section for lady community of LYN to improve.

among the many section of LYN forum, probably the one with lousiest growth / progress would be Girl's Club. Reason? Well you guys know why la.

i personally think that post count is not an issue. sexually related topic should be alright but i think it's time we put a consideration on WHO started the topic.

nowadays, you see people less than 24 hrs but somehow know how to come here and post a sexually charged "hawt hawt hawt" question that guys love to know the answer. LOL. end up guys asking and guys answering.

from what i observe, most girls that register won't know about LYN's Girl's Club after a little while later unless someone intro them to this place.

perhaps we could start it like this la, you gals / guys just click the REPORT button if you see some strange folk just registered and started a new odd topic. do notice how these fellas often just register, post a topic and go missing. it's like WTH!?!?! all they could post are stuff like "what do you think about orgasm?" but never even post some view or observation of their own to start the ball rolling.



as for guys being mod - seriously la better girls be GC mod. currently mod is only juichuan, again it's not easy to monitor everything that goes around, which is why i'm here to hang around. still looking for mods to whip things to shape. hehe.

a few months before allowed to start topic BUT they can participate on any existing topic.

sounds nice.

I rather let you girls decide what should / should not be allowed.

while waiting for a moderator to come, can always use the REPORT button. or heck, PM me if need. I'm always around on LYN / MSN and whatever else.

as long as the ladies are in favor of it.

by not doing what se7en mentioned, how else is GC going to recover?

the founding mothers of GC (like kyliemin.....) did whip the whip and also was kind enough to allow guys to post in GC, however this kindness was not properly treasured. guys took this for their advantage and that is where GC is now.

btw I'd also like to propose that
1. any NEW account that's found imitating a GIRL and starting a topic here. the duplicate account will be permanently banned while the original account (yes, of the owner) will get a 21 day ban.
2. any NEW account that come in (without being recorded as duplicate account) IS subjected to scrutiny and MAY subject to be banned as well.
3. IF any supposedly tag female account was discovered for actually being a guy - permanent ban! hehe...... ok well let the ladies decide la. i don't think permenantly leaving them as female tag would help la se7en, plenty of them do that. it'll give them nutso access to GC. so i prefer they get permenantly banned or something. hehe.

nickisthemost won't get to do welcome message already.

Well, you've been consistent though. hat's off to that!

btw Kopitiam is getting a clean-up as well. bit by bit.

now it's a matter of stopping GC from being another Kopitiam / Cupid's Corner.

hehe. i welcome cos i think having a staff / mod do the welcoming adds value. chehhhh LYN got value-added service leh.

This post has been edited by goldfries: Mar 21 2008, 06:40 PM

can we start here by sniffing out pretenders? shemales.

definitely can.

that one potential to be closed lor. but since @nnie has so far seem to be a lady (based on posts), i'm letting the rest of the ladies decide whether it should be closed.

i'm closing all the bleeding obvious though.

at present is as stated in the rules in GC lor.

unless you gurls want rules changed to GUYS NO POST thing.

shemales that come to post get 15 days holiday. with a holiday video.

noooooo that will make it Kopitiam spam material.

i think that'll be too much privacy involved.

This post has been edited by goldfries: Mar 25 2008, 02:10 PM

of course real la. no one got into my LYN account leh.

to mod a sex thread isn't an issue if people talk like mature adults. unfortunately it isn't so over at LYN.

http://forum.lowyat.net/topic/658864/
this topic i allowed a chance to be open but from the current direction, I'm inclined to close it so I'm going to do it.

this is also based on the general feedback that action should be taken on sex-related topic.

seriously la. from my POV, there's more things to a Girl's life than sex. sex is just 1 part of it, just as with any other individual on earth - male or female.

from now on. SEX related topics are to be cloesd on sight.

eh, it has always been enforced.

you didn't realize how many people i sent off for holiday for the offence ah?

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Added on March 27, 2008, 12:20 amsorry. what's this ah? care to elaborate?

anyway you ladies confirm with the "ban / take action on sex related threads" thing? or would you ladies prefer "allow it to open BUT see how it goes" ?

either way, use the report button. or PM me should you think a thread is worth KIV for closing.

This post has been edited by goldfries: Mar 27 2008, 12:20 AM

ok. how about those sexually related threads? like the one started by @nnie recently.

pm got 2 wives but the 2 is not at same time mah.

anyway back to topic. any other suggestions?

ok. we'll start with that and also - do REPORT if manage to sniff out some sneaky guys attempting to get cheap thrills!

i'll still be here.