Agree agree...... It's too high la... In fact, you expect him to earn Rm5k the lowest? well, for the ADUN(state assemblyman), their allowance is in that range....

If you really love him, how much he earn for his income is not a big deal...

omg...if i had a gf that expect me to earn 10k before im 30, id give her a slap before dumping her.

wth man, ridiculous the things that goes on in a girls mind.

i guess you don't even understand what i post in the first place.

read carefully.....
note that I did not say 10k at 30 is unrealistic. I said THAT KIND OF EXPECTATION is unrealistic.

get it? surely there are those who make 10k at 30 and there are those who make more but what are the percentage?

but my argument is not about the percentage. my point is that one shouldn't even place such kind of expectation. as long as the guy loves his job, has improvements and can make due - good enough already la.
refer to the above. i'm not saying it's not achievable. i'm saying the EXPECTATION part is unrealistic.

perhaps i misinterpreted you, or perhaps you meant something else - my point is that there's no reason to even EXPECT a guy to earn X amount at Y age.

if he doesn't, what are you going to do? dump him? or be unhappy? or label him failure? I hope not la, I'm not saying you are but I just hope that you won't.

in a relationship, expectation can add pressure. it's unpleasant for the guy part. just be supportive.