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 How much should a guy earns per month?, When they reach 30

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kapitan
post Mar 29 2008, 07:48 AM

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Honestly I do agree with Goldfries that youngster nowadays set limit so high that it end up burdening themselves. Different people have different perspective but dont forget not everyone have the same need. Some people long for money but some long for love and care. For me, of course I will try my best and give the best possible I can afford to my wife n children but deep down, you gotta know that there is nothing materialistic that will ever replace your warm and care. Money is not everything. When you are 50 and you look back at what you have achieve, you wont look at how much you earn and such. What you see will be a lot different than what you think now.
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post Apr 1 2008, 05:05 PM

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I dont know how well you will be able to keep your health at but working hard at 60yo, I do have serious doubt on your capability. Hahahaha....

I think what some of us wanna point out is that money although is important but not necessary the deciding factor in your search for happiness. Example, even if you drive a BMW and live in a bungalows, what does it mean for your wive and children? Its meaningless. Your child doesnt know the value of it nor your wife will be happier sitting in a BMW than on your laps. I didnt say we shouldnt work hard and try to earn as much as possible when we were young, but rather we must know there's a limit to everything. One must find a balance point where he can try to earn as much as possible and yet be able to spent precious time with his loves one. Money cant buy time... thats for sure...
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post Apr 2 2008, 09:40 AM

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QUOTE(jchong @ Apr 2 2008, 08:51 AM)
True, women nowadays have equal opportunity to work and pursue a career.

However, one part that is unfair is that many women who work also do a majority of the house work and child caring (this part is usually not 50/50 share by the men). That means nowadays the women are superwomen, work plus do majority of house work and child care.
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I wonder how true is that. Keep in mind that nowadays many women dont like to look after their child. My mom used to look after kids that why I know. Women who been working for quite some time find it hard to look after their child compared to their work even though a big share of their salary ultimately went to the babysitter pocket.
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post Apr 2 2008, 10:02 PM

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QUOTE(Liuism @ Apr 2 2008, 04:47 PM)
reading this thread gives me pressure oni..mostly all earning more than 5k.. rclxub.gif
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I dont earn more than 5k. I earn 3k nia and already 29.
I dont really think one should stress on how much they can earn. Ppl nowadays dream of having their own car, house, etc etc by age30 bla bla bla. If you can afford, good but when you cant, its also normal. Just ask your parents. When did they first bought their own house? First car? I know so many people that bought cars and houses only to realise that they cant really afford it. Live is so short that its better to live it happily than to indulge myself in the life of materialistic. I do feel happier having a RM4 si-ham-mee or RM10 ikan bakar than dining with my gf in Jogoya. I always went to dinner on my company behalf but I prefer to stay at home having dinner with my gf if I could. Dont let value control your life, instead value your life so that you have no regret.

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